Remembering The Fallen 5/31/2021

 Good Morning,

This morning started with some prayer and a hot cup of Door County Chocolate Raspberry Coffee and once again I am ready to write and share my heart with all of you.

At a very young age I was taught the meaning of the last Monday of the month in May. Memorial Day was a day to remember those who were killed defending our country in battle. I recall the the first trip my parents made with me to the Veterans Cemetery to observe the laying of the wreaths at the reflective pond on Memorial Day.  When the rifles were fired in salute to the fallen, and then taps was played I felt a chill in my bones. Even as a little boy I understood that I had just witnessed something special. 

On the way home from the ceremony, my dad was pretty quiet. Mom asked him if he was ok. His reply was sobering. I knew that Dad had fought in the Korean War but I still can remember his words from that day. "I made it home. Some didn't. We just paid honor to the real heroes. Those who didn't make it home and gave it all on the field of war are the real heroes.". It was a long time before I knew that his next statement came from the Bible. The one and only verse I ever heard him recite. 

John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends. 

It was a quiet ride home as I took all of what I saw that day into my small mind. World War Two was still fairly fresh in the minds of many. Korea was finished, but very fresh in many  hearts. I watched families weep that day and understood why. So today if you know someone who died in battle, remember their family in prayer. Be respectful this day as many are mourning. Give them peace and love on them if need be. Then look up and be thankful for those who did not make it home. Be thankful if you made it home. Be thankful if you never had to answer the call. 

God bless,

Marty

A Working Dog??? 5/30/2021

 Good Morning,

The sunshine is beautiful and the air is just a little crisp this morning. I am pleased with my choice of a morning beverage. Door County Chocolate Raspberry Coffee is just enough to take the chill out of this guy. it is time to write. 

Yesterday our youngest Springer Spaniel Leo head an appointment with the veterinarian and during our discussion after she checked him out she referred to Leo as a "Working Dog". I chuckled about that all the way home, especially when I looked into the back seat of my truck and saw my "Working Dog" sound asleep. Leo and His partner Gibbs are both trained to hunt and they are quite the duo in a field. They hunt hard and fast while flushing  pheasants. They both will hit the icy water to retrieve a downed duck. But I never considered our hunting as work for me or them.

I put that thought to rest for awhile until this morning and then resumed thinking about it again. Their work day in the field is strenuous. They come home tired and sore. They endure some harsh conditions at times. They give it their all right up to the point of being exhausted. They train hard all year long. They are ready to go and travel a long way to the work field or water hole. They are always willing to go and don't need to be coaxed into working. Their payday is a hot bath later, a warm bed by the fireplace, some extra food, the same belly scratching they get on any normal non work day. Just maybe they might get an Egg McMuffin Sandwich on the way home. They receive a lot of praise for a job well done. So I guess they are working dogs. 

I watch our pastors and this old elder serve the Lord with long hours in our church. Many others volunteer weekly to keep the church running. The things they do and I do, I never considered as work for me. I think I can speak for them. They answered a call on their lives sometime in the past to serve God and they "work" hard at what they do. I am grateful for the lives they impact. To be honest I never hear them complain about the "work". I know one thing though, that at the end of their work day there is always this thought.

Matthew 25:23 His Lord said to him, "well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of the lord. 

At the end of the day, what have you done for the Kingdom of God and given your all? Have you done whatever you do, without complaining, not seeking the approval and applause of man? My two dogs consider working for their master a joy and they do it for a little praise and an egg sandwich. They would have done it all anyway even if there wasn't a treat at the end. They just want to spend time with their Master and make him happy. Can you say that to please God is your one desire? 

Have a great day.

Marty

Praying With Others 5/29/21

 Good Morning,

My day began with prayer and it looks like this day will be a busy one for sure. The fireplace is crackling with a small fire with some of the left over wood from last year. A  fire was needed again this morning and combined with a hot cup of Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee this old bag of bones is warming up pretty nicely.

Joel 1:14 Consecrate a fast, call a solemn assembly. Call the elders and all the inhabitants of the land to the house of the Lord your God, and cry out to the Lord.

Tonight after our Saturday evening church service we will gather together for an extended time of prayer. We actually call it our "Prayer Gathering".  15-20 people gather together and share prayer requests with one another and then pray for each one as the Holy Spirit leads us to do. Sometimes there are more people who attend but the core group remains the same. Most of my prayer life is spent alone, taking time with God to communicate my thoughts, desires, fears or concerns for others.  I approach the throne of God humbly yet boldly in prayer and consider my prayer life God's gift. But to be honest I truly enjoy the time spent in corporate prayer with the others in the group of faithful prayer warriors. I listen to the requests and sometimes I am led to pray and at other times I am very pleased to just listen to the prayers of others. I will verbally agree with their prayers with heartfelt amen at the end of each prayer. 

A lot of answered prayer requests have been experienced within that group and at times there have been answers of "not yet or no" from Heaven. But these faithful folks come on every last Saturday of the month to gather in prayer and experience God together.  We don't snack, play games and then throw in a time of prayer. The whole time is devoted to prayer.  Sometimes, since it is late when we finish, a few will go out to eat afterwards, but rarely does that happen.

Friends, can your family, friends, or church count on you to gather and pray for the needs of others? Do you devote time to prayer. I highly recommend gathering together specifically for prayer now and then or better yet on a scheduled basis. The fruit produced in prayer is immense and builds up one's faith in God. 

So consider joining an established group or starting your own. You only need two people to start with!

Have a great and prayerful day. 

Marty

Just A Closer Walk 5/28/2021

 Good Morning,

Friday arrived as promised and in our part of the world, you would think it is late November. A small fire in the hearth is warming the house and a LARGE cup of Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee is taking the chill out of my bones. 

Psalm 42:1 As the deer pants for streams of water, so I long for You, O God

I started hunting for wild game when I was nine years old. At that age I wasn't allowed to carry a rifle, but I went along with my dad just to observe. At that age I wasn't real crazy about getting out of a warm bed and walking out in the woods to a deer stand in the dark. My nine year old mind hadn't put all the pieces together yet. My imagination always got the best of me. I knew that in late November most bears in our part of the woods were hibernating. Yet I was convinced that there was one or two hiding behind trees waiting to have me for breakfast. Wolves weren't much of an issue back then, but the woods of my mind had plenty of them. I was glad Dad had a rifle and the Marine knew how to use it. I quizzed him the night before as to if he was proficient enough with that Winchester. 

As we walked in the dark, Dad always walked slow enough for me to keep up. His warning to me "You don't want to get lost out here" rang in my head all the way to the deer stand. By the way that quarter of a mile seemed like ten miles going uphill in the dark to me. Daylight would eventually arrive and we would share some coffee. I sat pretty close to my Dad while we were in the dark. Nothing was going to get between us, my safety, and that Winchester if I was being attacked by snow snakes. (Thank you Uncle Connie for that Bull Dinky story.) The day would end when we shot a deer or at the end of the day. When we were unsuccessful we walked back out of the woods in the dark. Lions, tigers and bears oh my!

Here is the point. Even though my fears were all in my imagination, they were real to me. Overcoming those fears was easier because I walked very close to Dad. 

I have this quote where I can see it now and then. 

"Walk so close to God, that nothing can come between you.

Anonymous.

Friends, here's the point of the day. Do you walk so close to God that nothing can come between you? Or do you leave space that allows for the world to creep in and cause a separation between the two of you? Whenever I slowed down in my walk to the deer stand and Dad was out of my sight the snow snakes seemed more real and all the bears woke up from hibernation just to devour me. We need to keep in step with God and draw as close to Him as possible at all times. He is the one who can navigate the dark woods we pass through and always lead us home. 

Have a great day. Watch out for snow snakes!

Marty

Thoughts For Thursday 5/27/2021

 Good Morning,

My cup of Door County Peanut Butter Crunch Coffee is steaming next to me and now it is time to write.

As I pondered and prayed about what to write today my thoughts took me to safety and what God has to say about being safe. There are several, actually many Bible verses that speak to safety and God.

In every verse that I browsed through it specifically tells us that our safety and refuge is found in God and God alone.

Psalm 4:8 In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for you alone, O  Lord , make me dwell in safety. 

Proverbs 18:10 The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous man runs into it and is safe.

Proverbs 29:25 The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe.

Friends, I have no idea what you might have to do today, or travel to, but please ask the Lord to direct your paths. Pray for your safety, pray for safe travels. Let God make your choices today. If need be, slow down and take time to listen. 

Be safe out there. Call upon God in all things.

Marty

Talks A Lot Without Saying Anything. 5/26/2021

 Good Morning,

Wednesday arrived and as I peek over the top of my glasses I can start to see Friday already. My cup of Door County Peanut Butter Crunch Coffee is steaming next to me. It is time to write. 

Proverbs 10:19 When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent. 

Have you ever been around someone who talks a lot, yet really doesn't say anything? I am sure we all know at least one person like that. This is especially true when someone is confronted by others or authority figures. They will give all kinds of statements without accepting responsibility for their actions. This can also be seen when people are asked to assist with something and it is going to cost them with things like time or money. They talk in circles without saying yes or no to the question.  Being very non committal is the response, they give, thinking that the more they speak the more believable there answer is. Yet their answer is nothing but words in the wind. 

When we give people a song and dance instead of a straight answer we leave ourselves open to interpretation which can cause harm to reputations and feelings. 

One of the ladies at church just remarked at how I can be the king of one word answers. A one word answer never needs an explanation. 

So, I left you food for thought. Have a great day.

Marty

Make It A Better Place 5/25/21

 Good Morning, 

Sleeping just did not seem to want to work for me last night. I am awake, but that's about all I can say for today. My cup of Door County Black and Tan Coffee is working hard to get me started, but to no avail.

Proverbs 31:20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. 

Today is May 25th and it is the day my wife was born. So happy birthday Hon. My wife Rene is one who pretty much keeps to herself. She doesn't say too much, but when she does, it is usually a well thought out statement. She works hard behind the scenes so I can do the things I do. If I am busy at church she is busier at home. For instance she will mow the lawn or seal the driveway so I can be working at our Men's Steak Feed. Most always she is the one who takes the dogs to see the veterinarian. In her own quiet way, she makes my part of the world a better place. I saw her nurse me through a 41 day bout with Covid in 2020 and take charge of my care. Without her, life would have been tough. 

My point is this for today. What part of someone else's life are you working to make life, home, or work a better place. When you leave this world some day, will the world be better just because you were here? It takes an unselfish heart to do so. So today, just by picking up some litter or bringing home a stray dog now and then will you make your part of the world better for someone? 

God bless,

Marty

Look God No Hands 5/24/2024

 Good Morning,

The alarm clock summoned me to a wakened state of mind and now a hot cup of Door County Black and Tan Coffee will finish the chore of waking this bag of old bones up today. 

About a month ago I mentioned a bicycle my parents purchased for me when I was a young boy. I always enjoyed riding that bike up the 35th street bridge going North and once I was at the top I would start out and then stop pedaling. The grade of the bridge would have me flying down that hill in no time flat. I can still feel the breeze on my face. As I grew a little older I became more daring in my triumph down that hill. Before I knew it I was riding down the hill without any hands on the handle bars. Hands free! I felt like I was at the top of the world. No restraints and no brakes, all the way down. Mind you, we didn't wear helmets back then to ride a bike. Somehow we survived without car seats too. Dad or mom's arm was the seatbelt. If we did have a car seat for a child it came with a steering wheel to amuse us. I see the kids are now sitting in car seats until they are 21. 

I am afraid that we have adopted self imposed safety features on our faith and the works faith should produce. We have our hands on the wheel and sit in safety seat when we start to count some costs to our faith. We are always looking for a safety net in case we fall. 

Matthew 19:26 But Jesus looked at them and said," With man this is impossible, But with God, all things are possible. 

I often hear from people when asked to serve in church, some of these answers. "I would but I am not as schooled as others. I would but I am still searching for a church that fits my needs. I would but I am not a people person. I would but I am too busy right now. Maybe next year. I would but God can't usel me. I have too many past sins. I would but that would mean a change in my life. I am not ready for that. Mission trip? No way! I could never go to a foreign land."  Safety belts, safety belts, and more safety belts. Never have these people felt the wind of the Holy Spirit in their face showing them that with God, all things are possible. They put restraints on the Holy Spirit and filter what God has said to them through the filter of safety excuses. They convince themselves that "I can't or God won't" is the answer. 

Friends. Take God literally at His Word and let Him direct your paths. Take the hands off the handle bars and let Him show you great and mighty things. Let the wind of a spiritual awakening blow in your face as you follow God without applying the brakes.

That's a lot for a Monday. 

Marty

A Walk For A Cause 5/23/2021

Good Morning,

The coffee mug is empty this morning. It will be filled later today with some Door County Black and Tan Coffee. It is time to write.

Proverbs 3:28 Do not say to your neighbor, "Go, and come again, tomorrow I will give it", when you have it with you.

Matthew 7:12 So whatever you would wish others would do for you, do also for them. 

Rene and I will be joining my brother and many more folks in a walk/run for Huntington's disease. Our nephew is marrying into a family next year and his future father in law suffers from this disease. Up until a few months ago I never heard of this disease which for now has no cure. His future father in law is also a member of the community where we live. This disease is always fatal. It is a progressive breakdown of the nerve cells of the brain. 

Of course we are praying for our new friend and his family. We chose to join this cause because of the relationship and also because it is one within our small city. Rene and I support a few charities and causes such as this. So todays lesson/point is this. Be active in your own community. If there is a house fire and a need for clothing, do what you can to help. If a neighbor needs help keeping up with the snow in the winter do what you can to help. 

You can make a difference in the lives of others and you can probably do something for someone today. 

Marty

I Guess, I Am Spoiled! 5/22/21

 Good Morning,

It is a bit dreary outside this morning, very warm but dreary. My mug of Door County Cinnamon Hazelnut Coffee is steaming next to me, so it must be time to write. 

Many years ago, my wife Rene and I led the youth ministry in our church. It was a blessing to be surrounded by dedicated leaders and kids of different backgrounds, different behaviors, and definitely different views of the world. 

One such teen, was a miniature stick of dynamite that had no limit to her questions, observations and love for God. She spoke her mind and quite often her mouth got ahead of a well thought out statement. But her heart was in everything she said. You have heard the statement "It takes a whole village to raise a child". I am sure that statement was derived just for this little one.

We were blessed to have her adopt us as step parents as well as a few other parents within the church and one day before eating lunch at our home I started setting the table. It had to be late fall or winter because part of the lunch menu was soup. I mentioned to Rene that I would get out three soup bowls. Our guest looked puzzled and I knew the gears of her mind were forming and observation that would soon come out of her mouth. 

The observation began with a question to my wife. "Rene, did you eat breakfast today?" The reply was "yes I had some Cheerios." "How did you eat them? And what were they in when you started eating?' Rene again replied, "They were in a cereal bowl." Next came observation number two. "You ate breakfast from a cereal bowl and now you are serving soup in SOUP BOWLS! Don't tell me if we were having salad today, we would have salad plates or bowls!" Both of us were intimidated by a 99 pound 15 year old as we looked at each other both knowing the answer but afraid to pipe up and speak. I not being smart enough not to answer said,  "yes we would have salad bowls. I don't like salad plates."

The immediate response from this child was. "You two are spoiled. One bowl and a plate are enough for anyone." Since that day, when I retrieve a couple of soup bowls for a winter meal I recall that statement, count our time with our little evangelist as a blessing, and laugh to myself. I always say to Rene as I fill a bowl with chili or potato soup "Hey Spoiled One, Come And Get It" 

The point I am trying to make here is not on table etiquette, because it really doesn't matter. Our view of a soup bowl and hers were different. I look at the bowls now and remember everyone that has graced us with their presence at our table and what a blessing each one of them has been to us. The time spent with that 99 pound blessing taught us many things and the experiences were priceless. Some day she will inherit a setting of soup bowls for 12. She taught us to appreciate what we have, share when possible and love all our guests like family. One day, I walked that little turkey down the aisle. Her dad had passed away and I was honored to be asked to fill in. I pray for her often always asking God to keep her soup bowls full. I am Him to bless her ministry and her family.

Romans 16:2 That you may welcome her in the Lord, in a way worthy of the saints, and help her in whatever she may need from you, for she has been a patron of many as well as myself. 

She probably would look at the bowls today and say "Spoiled." I would say "Blessed memories".

Marty

Advice For Friday With A Recipe 5/21/2021

 Good Morning,

It will be a shorter work day today. I will be visiting a couple of hospitals today for a few hours and then home for the weekend. I just poured some Door County Hazelnut Creme Coffee into a large preheated mug and now it is time to write. 

Here's a few Bible verses to help you make this a great day.

Psalm 118:24 This is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it.

Colossians 3:12 Since God chose you to be the holy people He loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

Micah 6:8 The Lord has told you what is good, and this is what he requires you to do; to do what is right, to love mercy and walk humbly with your God.

Proverbs 16:24 Kind words are like honey, sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.

Proverbs 3:6 God will direct your steps. 

Psalm 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, renew a loyal spirit within me.

This blog was simple to write. I let God do all the talking today. Here within , is a message for you today!

Marty

GRILLED MONTANA WALLEYE WITH FRESH HERBS AND GHEE (GAPS, PALEO, WHOLE30) 

COURSE: MAIN

 

CUISINE: GAPS, PALEO, WHOLE30

 

PREP TIME: 15 MINUTES

 

COOK TIME: 14 MINUTES

 

TOTAL TIME: 29 MINUTES

 

SERVINGS: 4 -6

 

AUTHOR: CARA COMINI

Slather your walleye fillets with fresh herbs, lemon juice, and a little olive oil and then throw them on the grill for an easy, delicious, and fresh dinner. Can also use tilapia, cod, or trout.

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INGREDIENTS

• 2-3 Walleye Fillets about 8 ounces total
• 1/2 teaspoon sea salt
• sprinkle freshly ground black pepper
• 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
• 1/4 cup fresh minced herbs parsley, basil, oregano
• 1 lemon or 2-3 limes juiced
• 2 tablespoons olive oil avocado oil, or melted butter or ghee

INSTRUCTIONS

1. Run your finger down the sides of your walleye fillets, checking for bones. Remove any with needle nose pliers (once you find one they should all be in a line and relatively easy to find).
2. Rinse fillets and pat dry. Place on a plate or cutting board.
3. Sprinkle both sides with sea salt and black pepper.
4. In a bowl or on a small plate, combine smoked paprika, minced herbs, lemon juice, and olive oil.
5. Rub herb mixture evenly into both sides of each fillet.
6. Allow herb mixture to sit on the fillet while the grill pre-heats.
7. Preheat grill to medium-high heat for 10 minutes.
8. Once hot, gently place fish filets over heat and cook for 5-7 minutes per side.
9. If sides start to brown but fish is still not cooked through, move to indirect heat (not directly over the burners).
10. Remove onto a clean plate, sprinkle with additional salt if needed, and enjoy!

Here Comes The Warm Weather 5/20/21

 Good Morning,

The Door County Chocolate Raspberry Truffle Coffee woke me up about an hour ago. I have a long day planned ahead. Once I am done I can rest for three days. 

1Timothy 6:6 But godliness with contentment is great gain. 

The weather forecast is advising us all in this region that summer is going to give us a visit in the next few days. I am a fall, and winter kind of guy. So the heat does nothing for me. My wife loves the hot weather so I guess I have to give in and support those who don't like to wear long underwear. 

Last night my bride was complaining that since the shorts are coming out, it is now time to really shave the legs. I laughed at her and said "there is a time for every season and your favorite season means you need to get on those legs." I left the room because she wasn't smiling anymore. Seems that some people just can't make up their minds. Hot weather = shave the legs. Cold weather = long underwear.

My point for the day is ADAPT to what you have been given in all things. Maybe the tomatoes aren't growing. Switch to winter squash asap and get something out of the garden. Onions will grow almost until November. Less complaining and make the best of what comes your way. It's hard to work on your tan in January where we live. Take advantage of the sunshine and heat to tan up or sweat a little. Sweet Peach Iced Tea tastes better on a hot day than on a below zero day in February. Learn to be content.

Once you learn to be content and adapt for the good, you'll find that you will enjoy life a little more. 

Marty

A Wise Choice Paid Off 5/19/2021

 Good Morning,

Working my way to a hot cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee and a piece of raisin toast. Now it is time to write.

A long time ago when we purchased our Jeep (2012) we were offered a "Lifetime Warranty" for $750 dollars. I have never been one to purchase extended warranties. We were to close the deal the next day, so I had 24 hours to pray about the whole deal. 

On the way home from the dealership, my wife Rene said "you put on a lot of miles and I think an extended warranty might be a good idea." We went home and prayed and after having much peace with the deal we decided to go ahead and purchase the Jeep with the "Lifetime Warranty". 

Philippians 4;6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving let your request be made known to God. 

Yesterday I had to pick up the Jeep after some repairs. The repairs totaled $1300. We only had to pay the deductible of $105. Over the years we have spent out of pocket $900 on deductibles for the repairs to the Jeep. The total amount of what we could have spent is $8250.00 So we have saved ourselves a good $5000. We have a ton of miles on the Jeep and look forward to a ton more. 

I am not here to promote the sale of car warranties. I am here to promote prayer in all things for one. The other thing I would like to point out is that I listened to my wife. I trust her prayer life and the fact that when she hears from God, I would be a fool not to listen. 

1 Corinthians 11:11 Nevertheless in the Lord woman is not independent of man, nor man of woman.

Friends, pray before purchasing. Listen to each other. Have a great day. 

Marty

A Swing At The Plate 5/18/2021

 Good Morning,

I am happy to be writing early and hoping this blog meets a need today for someone. I just finished tasting my first of two cups of Door County Vanilla Creme Coffee and praying as I write. 

Phot credit Clip Art

It's that time of the year when the baseball diamonds are filled with Little League baseball players. Those kids get out there and they play their hearts out. Believe it or not I used to coach little league 1000 years ago. My style of coaching wouldn't work today. The kids ran laps and did push ups if they were caught not paying attention. You could say I was more of a Vince Lombardi style coach. 

One thing that it was hard to get a less talented kid to do was take a good swing at a decent pitch. They were afraid of striking out by swinging and missing. To the kids a base on balls was better than taking a shot at a good pitch. This theory led to many of the boys getting called out on strikes without ever taking a swing. Some were convinced that they had a better chance of getting hit by a pitch if they took a swing and moved into a pitch. Fear of getting hit had some of them frozen. 

One boy in particular had plenty of strength and in practice he would knock the snot out of the ball. But come game time he froze up. He never did loosen up enough to take a swing in the game and hear the cheers from the stands. I felt bad for this kid.

Life is like a baseball game. You never know what type of pitch it is going to throw to you. Some people quit on a day just because they are intimidated by what this day has to offer. They know the Coach has equipped them with everything they need. He is their Main Cheerleader. There is a great crowd of angels in heaven waiting to cheer us on as we gain the courage to stand up and take a swing at this day. Yet we freeze.

We should approach the plate confident and not as a loser. We might strike out now and then, but we were there and we took a swing. Today is only 24 hours in a lifetime, don't quit on today, You owe it to yourself to look this day in the eye and say "bring It" Then point to center field and swing for the fence!!!!

The signal for you today just came in from the dugout. 

" Hey Batter" You can do all things through Christ, who strengthens you! Philippians 4:13.

Good Day!

Marty

Where The Roses Never Fade 5/17/2021

 Good Morning,

This day promises to be a busy one for me. I enjoyed some extra sleep today and I am also enjoying a hot cup of Door County Vanilla Cappuccino Coffee as I write.

Song Of Solomon 4:16 Awake O North wind, and come, O South; Blow upon my garden, that it spices may flow out, Let my beloved come to the garden; And eat it's pleasant fruits. 

What you see in this photo are some rose petals pressed and sealed between plastic sheets. Originally the petals were a vibrant pink color. I took s couple of roses from a wreath we purchased to honor my sister at her funeral. She told me to send pink roses when we were talking before she passed away. You can see from the photo that the rose petals, despite being sealed away have faded and dried out. 

Just last week while working I ran into someone I hadn't seen in years. She had attended high school with my sister. We exchanged pleasantries and before I moved on she asked me how my sister was doing. I had been hoping I could avoid that question. I answered and told her about the passing of my sister and her eyes started producing some tears and I experienced a little spring allergies myself. 

Somewhat puzzling though, I did not recall my sister laying in a coffin at that moment. I recalled her telling me stories when she came home from school about her and her friend and their daily antics. In my memory she was full of life. I also was reminded of her faith and that she is in heaven, where the roses never fade. 

I also believe that God has given us a memory that allows us to go back and see the sweet things in life. In our memory vault the roses never fade either. So today, when you push the button to a memory choose to see the roses of your life in living color and enjoy a moment or two.

Have a great day,

Marty

I Did Pray For Rain 5/16/2021

 Good Morning,

There is a glow in the fireplace. The house was a little cool and damp this morning so a fire was needed and appreciated. My mug of Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee is next to me after being heated to perfection. It is time to write. 

Therefore the showers have been withheld, and the spring rain has not come ; yet you have the forehead of a whore, you refuse to be ashamed. 

On Friday when I heard the weather forecast for the next few days, I was a little disappointed. The weather man on television gave us the news that the best we could expect was some spotty rain showers on Saturday. We truly needed the rain. Our part of the country is experiencing a drought and I saw just how hard the soil is when I was turkey hunting last week. The soil was hard like concrete and the small creek running through that land was dried up. My thoughts while hunting turned to prayers for many and the many issues facing the world, our nation and cities. I also prayed for rain. 

This morning as I looked outside at the green grass and rejuvenated trees, I thought to myself how nice the all day rain we experienced yesterday was. I marveled how  much a good drink of water could heal a parched land over night. Just before I began to write, I believe the Holy Spirit reminded me to be thankful for the rain. I recalled my prayer for rain vividly. Now I am not saying my prayer was anything special. I am sure I wasn't the only one who prayed for rain. But this morning I was reminded that I did pray for rain. I was reminded Who sent the rain and that my small plea was answered and god decided it was time to let this land drink. 

The experience of this morning memory recall was priceless. God sends the rain, the sunshine, and the clouds. He orchestrates the morning and the night. He hangs the stars and the moon in their place. The ocean tides rise and fall at His command, despite the ugliness we have brought into the world and embrace. God just keeps the world spinning and if you look and watch you can see the beauty He gives us. My only sorrow is that I had to be reminded to be thankful. As I write, my shame is before me. So after being grateful I moved my prayer to asking to be forgiven for not giving God the glory for such a perfect rain, perfect timing, and being thankful that He heard a prayer from a one such as I. 

Be grateful in all things my friends.

Marty

Live Like You Mean It 5/15/2021

 Good Morning,

I am out in the turkey blind for one more day and then it is time to prepare for some fishing this summer. I have a Thermos bottle with me filled with Door County Black and Tan Coffee with me and a couple of biscuits to keep me going. 

I am on the downslide in years left on this planet and I am convinced I have found the secret to living life like you mean it.

There are the typical answers to this list of thoughts.

1. Work hard and earn your own way.

2. Honesty is a virtue. Along with honesty goes morality. Keep a good moral compass.

But the most important of all is to love God with all your heart and soul. This in turn teaches you to love and appreciate others. It teaches you to be loved. This little lesson will be short today. But the message speaks volumes . In a nutshell. Live to love and you will love to live. 

1 Corinthians 13;13 And now these three remain; Faith Hope and Love. The greatest of these is love.

Have a great day.

Marty

No Clue What I am Doing Today 5/14/2021

 Good Morning,

I am starting this day while hunting from a turkey blind. I have a hot cup of Door County Blackberry Shortcake Coffee with me and an apple for breakfast. 

Ezekiel 37:5 Thus says the Lord God to these bones: Behold I cause breath to enter you; and you shall live.

I said  that I am turkey hunting today and I really have only tried this once, about 20 years ago. My decoys are some of my own and some are borrowed. I have a couple turkey calls, a shot gun, ammo, a chair, binoculars, head lamp, lunch and a license. I have permission to hunt some private land and I have seen some turkeys hanging around the spot where I will hunt. 

But in all honesty, I really don't have much of a clue on turkey hunting, or the tactics that go with it. I have a couple days off of work and I really want to spend it outdoors. I will be taking a lot of time in prayer and studying while I hunt. I plan on enjoying all the things I will see today and hope for a shot at a turkey.

I have lots to be thankful for and a lot to be praying about. You could say that even though I am resting outside in nature I will still be multi tasking. But I will be breathing air that hasn't been breathed before. Not wearing a mask today and covid will be far from my mind. You could say this is a mini retreat for me. Today friends, take some time to retreat from life even if it is just for a few minutes. Breath and exhale. You are loved. Feel alive.

God bless,

Marty

A Higher Strength 5/13/2021

 Good Morning,

Thursday arrived and if I look over the top of my glasses I swear I see Friday coming in like a race car without any brakes. After some prayer and a cup of Door County Cherry Creme Coffee I am ready to write.

Romans 12:19 Dearly Beloved, avenge not yourselves.

There are times or seasons in one's life when it takes more strength to be quiet, subdued, and in control than it takes to blow up and wreak havoc near and far. Composure actually shows the highest degree of power. Look at Jesus as He was interrogated, beaten and wrongly accused. He did not answer. He never called on legions of angels to assist Him. He responded with a voiceless calm. None of this caused Him to become vile and indignant. 

Jesus had a strength that produced calmness during calamity. It would have been tempting to launch a 5 pound can of whoop butt on His adversaries, but He did not avenge Himself. Within each Christian, the Holy Spirit resides and we have the power from the Holy Spirit to remain calm despite tumultuous times. We can show our power during a verbal attack just by not responding. Verbal attacks can hurt us. I will admit to that statement. But they do not have to move us. A verbal attack is hurtful for sure. But not being moved to respond with an eye for an eye attitude shows who really has power within, a strength that can't be explained.

So today refrain from avenging.

Marty

A Look In The Mirror 5/12/2021

 Good Morning,

A hot mug of Door County Tanzanian Pea Berry Coffee is awaiting me in the kitchen. I can smell it brewing two rooms away. It's time to write. 

Have you looked in the mirror in a way that is just not a glancing peek, but a good long look? Have you actually looked long enough to perform a short study on your face? What do you see? For me I see a face that has spent too many hours in the sun. I see an aging face that looks more like my dad did when he approached 80 years old. 

Have you ever imagined that your face is really a mirror itself? We are God's mirrors. We have sat at the throne of God in prayer. We were justified through Grace by Jesus' sacrifice for us on the cross. We should reflect the glory of the Lord. We have studied God. He has loved us with an unending love. 

2 Corinthians 3:18 "And we with our unveiled faces reflecting like mirrors the brightness of the Lord, all grow brighter and brighter as we are turned into the image that we reflect; This is the work of the Lord who is Spirit.

We have witnessed glimpses of the glory of God. Shouldn't we hope to be the mirrors of God, to be used by Him as our call to the work of His Kingdom. What do you reflect? Can others see the reflection of God's love in our faces?

Food for thought,

Marty

It's OK To Be Angry 5/11/2021

 Good Morning,

I am starting a little late today. Yesterday ran long into the night leaving a little tired today. I am surrounded by our two Springer Spaniels who both want to sleep on my feet. This cup of Door County Tanzanian Pea Berry Coffee never tasted as good as it does today.

Ephesians 4:26 "Be angry, but do not sin; Do not let the sun go down on your wrath."

Psalm 37:8 Cease from anger, forsake wrath, it only causes harm.

As I survey people from afar and up close and personal' I am viewing people who are normally subdued and calm, becoming more and more angry all the time. They aren't content with life, thrilled by the politics of yesteryear or of today. A dispute over a parking space recently ended up in gunfire. Respect seems to be a word that was retired from the dictionary. 

God's word clearly states that we can have a righteous anger over things. I will give an example. Last year there was a little child that was beaten so badly by other children, the child died from the injuries. This made me upset and angry as I am sure it did for other people. But in God's instructions on anger He tells us we can have anger , but the anger cannot cause us to sin. So if someone were so angry with those who beat the child and went out and administered what they see as justice by beating the other kids to death, this would be outside of our laws and be a sin. Do not repay evil with evil.

In this case we can be angry, but put our anger to action like praying for everyone impacted by this terrible event. You might even volunteer at a youth center, working to teach kids right from wrong. 

Our anger needs to be a righteous anger, which is a hard line to follow, but it is in your best interest and the interest of others if you don't let the anger control you, and cause you to respond in a way that causes more harm or in a way that you will regret later. 

Today cease from anger. Search for peace within. Take time before responding to any event that makes you upset. Time spent praying and reading God's Word will lead you to a different response than the first on that came to mind. Forsake wrath.  Stop. Have an ice cream cone. Enjoy the time as you cool down.

God Bless,

Marty

You Make Me Smile 5/10/2021

 Good Morning,

The alarm went off and I hit the floor moving fast. The aroma of the Door County Hazelnut Creme Coffee is beckoning me to venture to the kitchen. It is time to write.

Proverbs 15:30 A cheerful look brings joy to the heart. Good news makes for good health. 

I was trying not to think too hard yesterday while I was enjoying some quiet time outside. My thoughts went to  recalling some memories left to me by my parents. I believe that because it was Mother's Day, thinking about my mom, lead me to other thoughts.

I listen to my nephews now and then as well as my daughter. They have fond memories of their grand parents. There was always something good to eat at Nana's table. Papa was the first to teach each kid how to shoot and fish. It's funny how just the thought of those kids and then one great grandson being able to enjoy time with our parents makes me feel good. 

Those memories are priceless and in my mind they ended too soon. But what will be, will be. It is a legacy I hope I can live up to. Memories, that make others smile. Mom and Dad still are making me smile. It's a good thing to make others smile. I believe that when someone thinks about you and a smile comes across their face, you accomplished a great thing. I can't physically see my parents anymore, but just a memory makes me smile. 

Have a great day. 

Marty

Thank You Ladies 5/9/2021

 Good Morning,

It's a little cold outside again today. Cold enough for the fireplace to be fired up with some dry wood that is warming up the house. My usual Sunday ritual of drinking a cup of Hot Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee and listening to the radio as I write, has me feeling content. 

Today in America we celebrate Mothers Day and a few billion flowers have been purchased for this day. Today I want to say thank you to all women. For most of my work career I have been the minority at work. The majority of the workers in a hospital are women so at times you could say I was surrounded by "God's Finest Flowers."

Proverbs 11:16 A Kind hearted woman gains respect. 

If my mother were still alive I would be visiting or at a minimum I would be sending flowers. Mom lived quite a distance away from us. 

So today I want to send out a bouquet of flowers via words to all the women who have touched my life. Maybe you worked with me for an hour or two, married me for a thousand years, graced my life as my child, nursed me back to health, you were an aunt, cousin, niece, neighbor, friend, teacher, physician missionary team member, grandmother, or mother in law.  I want to say thank you for sharing your life with me even if it were just for an hour.

You touched my life and that makes you important to me. I thank God for giving me that experience. You were all prayed for today. 

Have a great day. For those of my closest relatives and friends who have gone on in death. I miss you and wish I could tell how I feel.

Love to all,

Marty

Covering The Plants 5/8/2021

 Good Morning,

It's early on Saturday and my mug was just filled with Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee and I am ready to write.

1st Corinthians 13:13 So now, faith, hope and love abide, these three. But the greatest of these is love.

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My wife Rene and I have had a couple busy days and some busy nights. One sick dog and then the weather report hit our television screens predicting a frost for last night or maybe a deeper freeze. Rene remarked that this frost would really wreak havoc on the plants that were already out of the ground. Some unseasonal warm weather fooled the plants and they came out early, thus the risk of frost damage. 

Last night we dug out the tarps we use to cover plants at night when weather like this graces our doorstep. We will probably lose more apples to this, but that isn't the first time and probably won't be the last. 

The main thing is, we had a chore to do. Both of us knew our part in the chore and we worked like a well oiled machine. We had a common goal of saving the plants and getting back inside the house. After 1000 years of marriage we have begun to think like one another. As I rolled out the tarps, Rene retrieved the rocks we use to weight down the tarps. I caught up to her and at the end we were both moving rocks from one part of the yard to the tarps. 

I looked at Rene and winked as we laid the last rock weight in place. I knew what she was thinking. "Custard later"???? It's never too cold for some vanilla custard with pecans on top.

So custard we did later. Here's my point. A well oiled machine cannot work against itself. The oil needed to make any relationship work and accomplish things is one of Faith, Joy and Love. Without it in a relationship there is very often too much conflict to get anything accomplished in a decent time frame or get it done at all. Throw in the engine additive RESPECT and the well oiled machine will last a lot longer than the "unmaintained machines" I am sure some of you don't like being called a machine, but it is the best analogy I could come up with. I would rather to be a team of two working together, than alone or against each other. Too may couples work against each other and end up succumbing to the friction they create. A machine cannot last all that long if it is fighting friction of the heart.  

Have a great day! 

Marty

Just One Of My Tools 5/7/2021

 Good Morning,

It has been aa long night. My wife and I have been nursing one of our dogs who is ill all night. I really needed this cup of Door County Blueberry Cobbler Coffee sitting next to me. It's time to write.

Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow, it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. 

I am one of those guys who carries a pocket knife wherever I go. It was a tradition I picked up from my grandfather. My dad carried one sometimes but not all the time. I don't feel totally dressed unless I have that small pocket knife with me. Very seldom am I without it. I have used the knife to open letters, cut rope or string, slice open boxes, remove a sliver of wood from my hand, cut a sandwich, clean a pheasant, goose or duck, sharpen a pencil, tighten a screw in a pair of glasses, cut lilacs for the table. I believe you get the picture. My small knife is a tool for me. I use that knife more than any tool I own. But in order for it to be useful I need to take it with me and I need to keep it sharp. 

I sharpen it my knife once a week or more often if I use it frequently. A dull knife is not worth much when it won't cut anything. There have been times when I had to sharpen it daily because of the things I was cutting or the frequency. 

Friends I treat my Bible the same way but kind of in reverse. I use my Bible daily to keep me sharp, directed, filled with purpose, morally upright, and in tune with God. Skip a day or two and slack off and I tend to wander and become a dull implement that God is not satisfied with or cannot use. My course in life gets easily altered when I don't keep myself sharp. Again the Bible is not useful if I don't take it with me. So therefore I memorize Scripture now and then and study God's Word daily. That way the Word is in my heart and I have it with me all day long. I have a better chance of staying sharp and useful that way. You could say I hone my mind and heart. 

Back to the pocket knife. When I reach to place the knife into my pants pocket it has another use by just picking it up. That little knife reminds me to stay sharp, read my Bible and pray. When I lay it down at night before resting, it reminds me once more to stay sharp. 

Have a great day!!!

Marty

Keep The Finances Under Control 5/6/2021

 Good Morning,

My biggest fear today is that there won't be enough hours to accomplish everything I need to do. I will look forward to my drive into work today while sipping on a hot cup of Door County Blueberry Cobbler Coffee. 

One of the many strains on a marriage are the finances. Plenty or lacking, either way can produce strain and stress.

Proverbs 24:27 Put your outdoor work in order and get your fields ready; after that, build your house.

The first one we will look at is when there isn't enough money to go around. It could be due to the loss of a job, or unexpected bills come at you like a storm that is of epic proportions. The first thing for a couple to do is to pray together. Things like this happen and they are unfortunate. Ask God to show you how to get through this tough stretch. I have been on this path myself and it was terrifying to say the least. I was down to my last 7 cans of soup and had just enough money for another week of rent. So I can identify with those who are financially strapped. 

I called my creditors and explained my situation and kept paying a dollar or more whenever I could. Then I looked into any way I could legally earn more money. I also looked at what I owed and why I owed it. I clearly saw my mistakes and vowed not to be in debt like this again. I made some drastic changes in my lifestyle and priorities. Within nine months I could see daylight at the end of the tunnel. I started giving to my church with a happy attitude. 

For couples, the key to finances in the red is communication and ownership. Before a purchase is made discuss these points. Do we or I need it? Do we or I just want it? How will we pay for it? If charging it is the method of payment and it is not an emergency, stop right there and ask why would we want to pay interest on something we can wait for? 

When finances are low, be creative and trim expenses. Cut back until it hurts. Be patient and be fair with one another.

Now when there really is enough money to go around yet you just can't get enough, the answer is more work, advancing your career for more money and spending more time away from each other and the family. This my friends is the sled headed down the slippery slope of destruction. Learn to be content and enjoy one another, your families and friends. No one ever said from their death bed , " I wish I had worked more." 

Finances are an important part of marriage. Big or small talk them over as a loving team. Make out a budget and try to stick to it. Pray for financial leadership from God. Whenever possible save for a rainy day. 

We could all share money saving tips or ideas and horror financial stories. But let's just keep it simple. Finances need attending to! Together.

Marty

Don't Stop Dating 5/5/2021

 Good Morning,

The sun is coming up and it is a cool morning to say the least. I thought we were done warming up the house but a small fire was needed in the fireplace this morning. The fire goes really well with my hot mug of Door County Raspberry Almond Coffee. 

1Peter 4:8 Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, for love covers a multitude of sins. 

In keeping with my theme of marriage for the last couple of days I want to talk about dating. Once you say "I Do" it doesn't mean you are done with dating each other. We found it extremely important to consistently have a "Date Night". This is especially important once children join the family. You do need some time away from work, chores, and at times the kids. The two of you can concentrate on each other even if it is just for an hour or so. 

I realize that at times, scheduling a date with each other can be a conflict in itself. I recommend a minimum of at least once a month. My wife Rene and I actually strive to make date night a weekly thing.

Date nights need not break the bank account and the more expensive dates should be for special occasions such as anniversaries, birthdays or holidays. They don't always have to be just the two of you.  But I recommend that you try to keep the majority of them just for  you two love birds. 

Money does not need to be an issue. A nice walk in a park or alongside of a lake, taking in a view of God's nature is sufficient. It gives you time together and the ability to talk to one another. Or even steal a kiss. By the way kisses are free.

When we launched into building our home and due to some unforeseen construction issues, money was scarce in our wallets. We actually stopped dating or doing anything outside of building the house. Soon the house was done and then the landscaping was a nightmare. Where we built the house, the city had a tight time frame for completion of sidewalks and landscape. We planted and poured concrete. Two months later, everything died due to a blight that infested the grass, bushes and shrubs. We needed to replant$$$. The stress of the building and landscaping had us both wired tighter than a ball of twine. The lack of a stress less date night was beginning to show in our marriage.

Being short of dollars but at least smart enough to pray I sought God for a solution to our date night. Yes I prayed about a date night on the lighter side of an empty wallet. A walk along the lake at that time might have been too hazardous. One of us would have thrown the other one in the lake.

The major city close to our home always has a bunch of different ethnic festivals. One of the festivals has a fireworks display at the end of each night. We did not have the money to go and purchase tickets, eat there and enjoy the festival. We were trying to stay ahead of going in debt. 

So as I was grocery shopping one day close to the date of Italian Fest I saw a large bag of Cheetos on sale. Diet Dr. Pepper was also on sale. I purchased both and came home and told Rene we were going out on Friday for a date and blue jeans would be fine. That night I packed two lawn chairs, the Cheetos and the Dr. Pepper. We headed to the festival park later than anyone would actually go to attend the festival. At that time of night they weren't charging for parking anymore. So we parked the truck. Pulled out the chairs and our treats and sat in a parking lot. We munched and talked. Rene said, "well we reached a new low in dating expenses. We could of sat at home and ate Cheetos." She hadn't bought in on this date just yet. She started urging me to leave. I refused and said we would wait for the festival to close and we would people watch. I saw her eyes roll. Rene had no idea that we would be watching some of the best fireworks she ever saw. Soon there was a flash in the sky, followed by some loud bangs that shook the parking lot. I forgot to mention that I already knew she loved fireworks. Friends, that date cost us $3.00 back then.  I will go on to say this. It has become an annual date for us. Friends join us now and due to covid we haven't been able to do this for two years. The festival will return next year and Lord willing I already have a hot date!!!

So here's my advice. Keep dating. Only do what you can afford. Pray about your dates. Take God with you. Dating keeps you young. I look forward to seeing my wife's eyes sparkle in the fireworks. I might even steal a kiss. 

Cheetos might want to know that they are a favorite snack for date night. Dr. Pepper was in on the cure for an ailing marriage. I need to give credit where credit is due. Thank you God for a great idea. 

God bless,

Marty 

Back To Marriage 101 5/4/2021

 Good Morning,

I am ready, willing and able to write this blog today. My cup of Door County Peanut Butter Crunch is at my side. It is time to write.

For the next few days I will be writing about marriage and some ideas on how to have a successful and loving marriage. 

Today we will just cover some basic behaviors that were learned before the 1st grade.

Please and thank you go a long way in making someone feel appreciated. My wife has ironed a few thousand shirts for me. At one time I saw her tackle 18 white dress shirts so she would be ahead for two weeks. That is a lot of ironing. I looked at her one night while she was at the ironing board and said "thanks for always ironing my shirts". Do you know how that hit home? She was wiping her eyes and said "that was the nicest thing you could have said to me". The other night as Rene was ordering some flowers for her mother to celebrate Mothers Day this coming weekend, she interrupted my work and said, "The computer and the website for flowers are driving me crazy. Later could you please help me order some flowers for my mom." 

Romans 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. 

Manners go a long long way in keeping a marriage afloat. Men do you compliment your wife on how she looks in front of the kids or others? Ladies do you thank your husband in front of the kids for making you all feel safe. Do you thank each other for going to work publicly and privately? Do you brag each other up to family and friends. especially the kids?

Treat others as you would want to be treated. The Golden Rule!!!!

Happy Tuesday.

Marty