Good Morning,
My hot cup of Door County Bourbon Vanilla Creme Coffee is really making our home smell like a classy coffee shop today. It's time for me to write.
Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers,
For they shall be called sons of God
One of my worst traits is my quick temper. I can entertain nonsense for a maximum of ten minutes. After a large dosage of someone in my face or spouting off with what I think is an attack on my family or me, or if they propose some type of danger to me or my family I am either late for the door or I am contemplating placing a boot where I think their brains are nesting.
This has been a struggle for me, because most of the time I can just walk away, but there are times when someone will just push it too far. I then have to make a choice. Ignore the problem in my face, or go on the very active defense. I don't believe that I have ever really gone out looking for an issue to take personal and then lose it when someone goes on the attack verbally. But!!
We, where I live, will start seeing more people canvassing our neighborhoods for votes for their party choice in our election for a state governor. Just yesterday while doing yard chores and trying to beat the rain, I was surprised to see a young lady in my driveway. I asked if I could help her and she replied "I Have a couple of questions for you. I am representing this candidate for election this fall and can I have your support." I was very polite and responded that I was not interested in doing so. I would be supporting another person.
Her response to me, uninvited was to say this."Oh you are one of those". Now believe me when I say that her reply had me just about ready to chew her out like she never heard before, but I had been praying for peace in a hot spot in the Middle East. I was reminded in my soul that peace is a choice and I could choose to battle with this young lady or show her that I could hold it back. I thanked her for stopping by. I asked her if she wanted a bottle of water and actually manufactured a smile. She did respond with a thank you and left.
So today as you go about your business, or interact with your family, know that sooner or later today you will have to make a choice on how to react to someone who has pushed your hot button. Try to remember this. It's your choice on how you react.
I came inside to grab a cold drink of water and told my wife about my interaction. She kept waiting for the rest of the story. She said, "And then what happened"? I replied "Nothing and it felt good not to wage a war of words and I made the choice to not let her ruin my day.
It's your mouth, your anger, and your choice to pursue peace especially on your own turf. You make the rest of the story.
Food for thought! Learn to agree to disagree and show respect toward one another.
God bless,
Marty