Good Morning,
My cup of Hazelnut Coffee is super hot right now nd it would be a great way to start a cold day in January. It is time to write.
Philippians 1:9 ESV And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and and all discernment.
Yesterday if my parents were still alive, they would have celebrated their 71st wedding anniversary. My folks weren't ones to "over celebrate". Giving each other a card or a small gift was as good as it got.
But yet, my dad would remind me not to forget my anniversary. I am not sure why he reminded me of my anniversary every year. I wonder if he forgot one of his own, or if he just knew that if anyone of his kids would forget one it would be me. Dad wasn't one to call you very often. It was your job to call him. Three days before our wedding anniversary he would call like a synchronized Swiss watch.
He would nonchalantly bring up the subject by asking what we had planned for our anniversary. I recall him going off on me one year because I told him that we were going to go out to eat later in the week on the weekend. Wow, here is the quote. "What the hell is wrong with you. Take a day off from work, both of you. Those hospitals will survive one day without you guys." ( We both worked in health care.)
The best I could do was to send flowers to Rene' work place. We also had a nice dinner at the end of the week.
So take it from me. You did not want to get chewed out by my Dad. So here is what I learned from him. Never forget the "God Given right to celebrate your life together. You never know when the last anniversary is the last anniversary"
Rene and I were married in September and he reminded me of our anniversary the week before our wedding date. My mother died in April of the next year. They were married in June.
The following year on their anniversary I called my Dad to check on him. I asked him what he was doing for the day. I was not surprised to hear him say. "I am going to the cemetery and put some flowers there for your mother. She liked flowers."
Friends, don't forget to celebrate your important dates and the dates of your spouse. Once they stop, they are stopped forever.
Marty





