Good Morning,
The day began very early and I am happy to be drinking a hot mug of Door County Blueberry Cobbler Coffee. It is time to write.
Every now and then my nephew Nick and I will get into some serious discussions. I know the fact that we can discuss other things besides, hunting, fishing and dogs comes as a surprise to many. But now and then we even surprise ourselves with the depth and intensity we can achieve when diving into the deep end of thoughts.
We were discussing a myriad of subjects the other day and we took a shot at what an apology should consist of. The discussion left me wanting to dive in a little deeper.
I am taking a shot at what I believe should be the 6 elements to an apology.
1. Apologies are Biblical. Matthew 5:23-24 So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother and then come and offer your gift.
2. Sincerity and honesty must be present in and apology. Or it is just a bag of hot air.
3. Offer an explanation for your behavior, but remember it is not an excuse for your behavior.
4. Express regret, sorrow and remorse in your apology.
5. Agree to make changes in your behavior in the future. The best apology is true lasting change.
6. Request forgiveness from the other person. Don't be offended if it is not granted. True change is measured and is often required before forgiveness is granted.
If you are reading this and you owe someone an apology don't wait for the perfect time. The perfect time is now.
Have a great day!
Marty
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