I started this day early and I am hoping to obtain a a bit of time to go to the gym tonight and sweat in a sauna. My mug was just filled with Door County Maple Coffee and it tastes as good as it smells.
My wife Rene and I have been married for a little over 1000 years now and someone asked us recently how we made it that long? A long time ago we discovered that in order to survive in marriage we needed to not take ourselves so seriously. We found that we both carried a chip on our shoulder and wore our hearts on our arms. We easily became offended and hurt over the dumbest things. In all reality we were both selfish.
We both had to admit that we were not the specimens of perfection we thought we were. And most of all, since neither of us is perfect, it isn't fair to expect perfection from each other.
Ephesians 4:32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, as in Christ, God has forgiven you.
Amazingly we found out that neither of us is a mind reader and failure to communicate can make any marriage suffer. Of course God needs to be at the head of every marriage and since He is the ultimate example of forgiving, we also concluded that in order to maintain the bliss, we need to be a forgiving couple.
Just a few thoughts on how we made it so far. I attached a recipe that is a favorite of ours. Oh by the way. Eat together!
Marty
Thanks Marty, if you don't mind I want to share this with a friend that had left her husband because he didn't fill her love tank. Well, since no one can read minds on what you need, or have kept God in the marriage (the greatest love tank filler) I thought it doesn't hurt to have them read this in hope that God will change her mind. I also will have them read the other one you had written on marriage not to long ago. God bless and thank you for doing these blogs! Karen
ReplyDeleteKaren. These are always able to be shared if you are led to do so. There are no royalties involved and I am glad that God blessed this one that you can use. Have a great day!!!! Praying for you friend. BTY if you look in in the archives there a quite a few on marriage.
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