Rewards For Performance 3/1/2025

 Good Morning. 

There is a hot cup of Door County German Cake Coffee steaming at my side and it is time to write. 

Matthew 7:12 So whatever you wish others would do to you, do also to them. 

I have a soft spot in my heart for dogs, especially the two I call ours. When they were puppies, they thrived on "treats for performance". When they did not use the house as their bathroom, or they managed another step in their eventual hunting skills they received a reward and always a lot of verbal praise. They were scolded for a mishap or bad performance. 

At the beginning of each day they are greeted and praised verbally with a tone of voice that is loving and friendly. They get their ears scratched and they are allowed to crowd my desk area as I write. We start every morning on a high note and end the day the same way. 

The same approach can be used and should be used with children and others. They might not like getting their ears scratched, but we should reward good behavior with kind words, and affirmation of what was done correctly or on time. Say thank you when someone goes above and beyond for you. A gift that was unexpected or a treat that says, you approve and are proud of them builds up their ego and desire to meet the mark!

Back in grade school I found out what a cracked rib feels like. I injured myself playing football. The next time I could play, I was taped and padded and showed up and actually played. It was the longest four quarters of my life. After the game, one of our coaches shook my hand and said "great job, I know that hurt tonight." I never forgot those words and that compliment shaped how I approached my work life. My motto was "I  work until the work is done and done right." Praise those who work for you right away when you see them doing a great job." Correct the wrong behaviors as soon as possible also without being angry. Let your anger be under control and don't never overboard.  Always say thank you.

My point for the day is this. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Build up when you can and sometimes you need to correct a bad behavior. That is just part of life.

Marty