This day started after getting a little extra sleep. I must have needed the rest, because I usually don't sleep as sound as I did last night. My mug is filled with Door County Jingle Bell Java Coffee. I promised that we would continue getting our hearts ready for Christmas. So here we go.
Luke 10:27
The man answered, ” `You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind.’ And, `Love your neighbor as yourself.’
Christmas is a time when we usually try to be generous to others by giving gifts. Some try to do a few charitable deeds during the season or visit friends and relatives. I know of one family who delivers Christmas meals to people who are shut in and cannot cook for themselves. During Christmas people tend to look to others instead of theirself . That's exactly what Jesus did. He came to earth to save others.
But I am going to advise something a little different. Please do not stop doing things for others. But I want you to consider giving yourself a gift. I promise that this won't label you as selfish or stingy.
Here are several gift ideas for yourself.
Maybe you have an addiction. Could this be the Christmas that you don't get drunk? Could this be the Christmas without pills or needles? Too much television, video games? The list is long.
Maybe you suffer from terminal crabbiness and sarcasm. Maybe Snarky should be your name. Could this be the Christmas that you give yourself a new attitude?
Maybe you can't remember the last time you opened your wallet to help someone. Try dropping some money in a charitable cause. Your memory will improve and with it your heart get's fixed. Give your heart a tune up.
Maybe you could give yourself the gift of time. An hour or two spent reading your Bible is investing in your walk with Jesus.
You could give yourself the gift of laughter. When was the last time you chuckled? Have a heart warming laugh. Find a church and attend the children's Christmas program. There is always that one kid who does something that his or her parents wish they hadn't, but the audience sees it as cute and funny. Kids love applause. There is a second gift in this one. You might enjoy the message also.
Maybe you are a terminal party person. Pity parties are your specialty. Give yourself the gift of relaxing from throwing all those parties. Self pity can wear you out beyond belief. Concentrate on helping others through a rough time. A heart that beats for others beats best. You will forget your own problems for awhile.
Scripture says that we are to also love ourselves. Every one of the gifts I listed above will also benefit others. The gift you give yourself might be the best gift you could give to your family and friends.
This season, as you are wrapping presents for others, unwrap one for yourself. It is fine to love on yourself.
God bless,
Marty
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