Good Morning,
A hot cup of Door County Blueberry Cobbler Coffee is helping me to start this day off in a good fashion.
Ecclesiastes 9:9 Enjoy life with the wife whom you love all the days of your vain life that He has given you under the sun, because that it your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun.
My wife Rene likes to watch movies shown on the Hallmark Channel and the GAC Family Channel. It just so happened that one day I sat down to watch one of the movies she was engrossed in. The movie was 75% finished when I took a break from whatever I was doing. Of course an estranged couple who had been apart, somehow found their way back to each other and it so happened that they renewed their love to each other by the tree where they carved their initials in many years ago. Being retired I am in and out of the house and a lot of times Rene has the television on and she isn't even watching it. But for a couple weeks I saw as I was being like an annoying 6 year going in and out of the house a couple of instances where they showed the initials in the tree scenes.
I asked Rene how many movies has she watched where there are initials carved in a tree or into an old bench seat or painted on a rock. She thought about it for a minute and replied, "I am not sure, but I think it would be a fair amount of scenes like that." Then I said, "You and I have been married for 1000 years now and we don't have a tree with our initials in it. Rene looked at me wit her usual stare of "Only you would think of that." I continued my thought process as I went back outside and it went like this. "I love her and she loves me, but yet we have no tree".
Being at home and we have a few trees, I was able to stretch out a cord and plug in a wood burning tip, and engrave my "sappy" (Pun intended. The sap oozed from the tree as I burned my message of love into it.) marker on a tree in our front yard. I did not tell Rene about it and just waited to see when she would notice it. She actually saw it the same day and was all smiles when she said "We have our own tree. When did you do that?"
M point for today is this. You are never too old to celebrate the markers of your life. It could be a photo or a Christmas ornament, or a tree with your initials in it. Some people measure their children each year and mark the wall with their height changes. Whatever you choose to celebrate and remember, should be important to you and shared with each other.
Have a great day and make memories to cherish.
Marty