Fear Has A Big Appetite 2/21/1024

 Good Morning,

I just poured a large mug with very hot Door County Cherry Crème Coffee and it is time to write. 

Psalm 56:3 When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. 

Psalm 34:4 I sought the Lord and He answered me and delivered me from all my fears. 

Most all people have a fear of something. Try giving  your fear level a score by number 1 being the least and 10 being your maximum fear level . Obviously when fear starts out at a1, our response is also minimal. I have concluded that fear has an appetite and it is fed by more fear.  "Fear Feeds Fear." It is very easy to let fear overcome us. And the way to beat the fear is to take it in small portions, and see that you can overcome the fear. Panicking and freezing in place only adds to the fear.

A simple way to fight off the fears of the day is to start every day with prayer and time in God's Word. When we fully realize that God is with us and does not want us to fear, we can face the fear that evil seeks to use as a battle implement on our day and night. 

If as a parent you show and share fear with your little ones you have just increased the fear in the room. 

When you are afraid or going through an anxiety attack, slow down. Take out your Bible, read and pray. Do this out loud. So not only does your mind know what you are saying but your whole body hears it as well. 

I could speak on this for days. but I won't. Just remember fear feeds itself with more fear. Nip that fear in the bud!

God bless. 

Marty

Peace, Keep It True At All Times 2/20/2025

 Good Morning,

I just sat down at the desk  with a hot cup of  Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee and it is time to write. Zechariah 8:16 These are the thing that you shall do. Speak the truth to one another.; render in your gates judgements that are true and make for peace. 

The world is watching the peace talks that are going on regarding the war in the Ukraine as well as other parts of the world. . I for one have been praying for peace since day one. I am not launching a blog today about specific details about any certain countries, their leaders or issues. 

I know this for sure though, that the peace hoped for will never come if truth is avoided. This goes for our personal lives as well. If we seek to make peace with an individual or group, it is necessary to deal only with the truth and not a manufactured peace based upon nothing but the truth. 

For instance a wife has a cherished heirloom on display and it gets broken when a Springer Spaniel runs into the curio cabinet while chasing a ball. The truth is, the accident shouldn't have happened. It was decided a long time ago that there would not be any throwing of anything in the house. In my simple attempt to defend my actions I could have tried to switch the blame for the incident to my wife. "That is a dumb place to put a curio cabinet." The truth is avoided by shifting blame. Now I added to the pain of the situation by avoiding my responsibility for the actions causing the mishap. Fortunately the heirloom was not a family relic and it can be replaced by touring antique shops until I can  pay my reparations. 

Any peace situation t that is hoped for by not professing the truth will not last. Personal, or world peace is anything but on solid ground when the truth is not part of it. 

God bless, 

Marty

You Just Never Know Who, When, And Where 2/19/2025

 Good Morning,

I just sat down at my desk with a hot cup of Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee and it is time to write. 

Proverbs 22:1 A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold. 

Yesterday I was working at the election polls in my town for a primary election. I was not working in my usual spot within the city. I agreed to be flexible when hired and there was a need to fill some absences in another district. So I volunteered to slide on down the road to that particular district. My wife joked about it the night before and challenged me with. "Now enjoy yourself and make new friends". I replied with "Yes mother. I will play nice and maybe even be approachable." I have been told for a long time that I am not approachable. And to be hones, it is probably true. 

So off I went with my little lunch box and met my coworkers for the day. They were a very nice group and made the new kid at school feel welcome. During the day my leader and I exchanged pleasantries . During our exchange she mentioned working in a camp as a volunteer. It sounded familiar to me and I said that I believe that some people from our church are connected with the camp. She asked me the name of our church and I told her. I did not expect the look on her face that I received. She asked me if I knew a particular lady from our church. This particular lady can't be mentioned in the same breath without mentioning her husband. They are a duo and when you think about them you always refer to both of them. I said I knew them both and that they are near and dear to me. They are a little bit older than my wife and I and my new leader just gushed with kind things to say about them. I added to the conversation to say that I admired their tenacity for loving God and taking care of others. 

My point for the day is this. You just never know who you will meet in any given day. You don't know how much you might impress others with your kindness and devotion, or not.  I would not have expected any less praise for my two friends than what I heard. Their reputation was and is impeccable and will be long talked about once they leave this world. I am proud to call them "My family from church."

What do people say about us when we aren't there?

Have a great day. 

Marty

Things Are Not The Most Important 2/18/2024

 Good Morning,

I am off to work the voting polls today with an insulated bottle of Door County Black and Tan Coffee and a small lunch. 

Most people understand that the important things in life are not things at all. What is most important in life are the relationships we build and endure. We were made, created, or wired to be relational beings. We have a desire within to be in relationships. These needs are met with relationships with others. 

But the most important relationship we need, is our relationship with God. It is our most personal relationship we will ever have. God created us. He knows us inside and out. He has numbered the hair on our heads. He knows are thoughts and our actions are never hidden from Him. Yet being as mortal and imperfect as we are God still wants a relationship with us. 

He never forces us into that relationship. On our part it is a relationship of choice and faith. Romans 5:8 But God showed His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 

Romans 10:9 Because if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. 

Revelation 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come into him and eat with him and he with Me.

The invitation to Christ is always available 24/7. The most important step anyone will ever take is to start and maintain that relationship/  

Have a great day!

Marty

Looking Through The Window 2/17/2025

 Good Morning, 

I just poured a hot cup of Door County Black and Tan Coffee and it is time to write.

Yesterday morning while while I was studying and praying, I looked outside at our back yard and the wintry landscape. I was glad to be viewing it through the window in my den. The climate inside was warm for sure. The den is right above the fireplace and I was going to add  two more logs to the fire . The fire was almost out and the dogs hinted that a stronger fire was needed.

Romans 12:8 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.  

We have our nephew's dog Waylon staying with us for a few days. We added a third dog bed in front of the fireplace. All three dogs meet at the warm spot and rest together. 

My point for the day is this. The dogs had just come in from playing around and training in the cold snow. They then took advantage of a warm solution to their snowy bodies. We as well should always take advantage of good things offered to us and share with others if possible. They exhibited the attitude we all should have. "Always Make Room For One More".

Keep that in mind this week as you travel your part of the world. 

Have a great day. 

Marty

No Meal There 2/16/2025

 Good Morning,

My cup was filled with Door County Hazelnut Crème Coffee and it is time to write. 

I had a young lady ask me a question regarding her recent Valentines Day experience. Her boyfriend proposed to her and wants to marry her in this upcoming fall. She asked me if I thought they were a good match and if she should marry him. I was flattered that she would seek my advice. I have only interacted with the couple a few times but had already witnessed some things I did not like. It always seemed to me that she was the target of some cruel jokes and the way he talked to her was not uplifting or endearing. 

Proverbs 23:8 You will vomit up the morsels you have eaten, and waste your pleasant words. 

I asked her this question. When you are together do you walk away feeling good about yourself? Do you feel important to him. The answer was a flat "No". I then asked her why she would want to marry someone who already does not treat her like she was loved. " No one else asks me out" 

Sometimes people can be so desperate for love and any affection at all, they settle for second best. I am hear to tell you this. No one ever grabbed a spoon and a plate and made a meal out of someone else's vomit. 

I will say this. If you are dating someone and you can't see any relationship that places God first in their life. Walk away. If God is first, you will be treated like the important person you are. The experience of the courtship will let you know that you are loved. It will be an uplifting time and will make you want to return the kindness and affection. 

If there is emotional hurt in the dating process, what will a marriage bring? And like cancer it spreads eventually to the children. This goes for men and women. 

My message for today is this. Be picky about who you date. They might become your mate. You are important to God and you should be treated that way!

God bless.

Marty

Put Another Log On The Fire 2/15/2025

 Good Morning,

Saturday it is and it would not be a morning if I did not have a hot cup of Door County Coffee next to me. My flavor of the day is Inn Keepers Blend. It is time to write. 

Proverbs 16:20 Whoever gives thought to the word, will discover good, and blessed is he who trusts in the Lord. 

Our house was a little cold inside last night. My wife Rene asked me to add another log to the fireplace and soon after that, the homestead was a degree or two warmer. The dogs like to curl up in front of the fire and stay warm. They have adopted that space as theirs. I was able to catch a few embers that were still glowing. It made it easy to stoke a fire and warm us this morning.

So I took a look at our blessings last night. I have ample wood to burn and I enjoy cutting firewood. We have a home, and there is food in the house. I have a wife to cut wood for. We have clothing for winter and blankets to spare. Last night I spent an hour or two in an upper den, reading my Bible and preparing a Bible lesson. Some snow came down last night and It was a beautiful sight to see. Our daughter is healthy and that has been a prayer request from last year. 

We have some bread rising in the pan and sometime today we will be baking it. Just a simple seat, at a simple desk surrounded by photos and memories, reminds me that I am truly blessed.  Counting your blessings now and then takes your eyes off of what you don't have, but what you have. I see so many happy memories with bread that will send it's beautiful aroma through the house, I am content.

So the message for today is to count not what you don't have, but what you have or had at one time or another. 

God bless,

Marty 

Valentines Day 2/14/2025

 Good Morning, 

I have a hot cup of Door County Hazelnut Crème Coffee at my side and I am ready to write. 

So today is considered a day for sweethearts. A day of romance, cars, flowers, chocolates and sappy cards. My wife Rene always tells me not to buy anything for her and I actually believe her when she says it. But I go ahead anyway and I have never spent much on the day. She received a box of cookies made just for her and a card which declares my undying love for her. Which to be honest is a repeat of last year. 

Song of Solomon 7:6 How beautiful and pleasant you are, O loved one, with all your delights. 

As the man of the house, I reserve the right to do other sappy things all year long. I advise young men to do small things for their wives or girlfriends all year long because!!!! 1. It's a good idea and flowers for no reason except to say I love you on a day that you weren't told to be loving and romantic are always appreciated more. .2 It's smart to remember "A happy wife is a happy life."

So fellas, make life good for your ladies and make the rest of the months contain a holiday to make sure you let her know that you would choose her all over again. I had to buy a book just to give me some good ideas. You can borrow mine! 

Good advice for the day!

Marty

Digging Out From The Storm 2/13/2025

 Good Morning,

I have a very hot cup of Door County Hazel Nut Crème Coffee in front of me and it is calling my name. 

Last night we decided to dig out from the snow storm to cut the work in half for this morning. It was a wise decision. What's nice about living where we do is that a snowy mess, becomes a "see the neighbors pitch in and help each other event ". It seems as if snow becomes a glue of friendship and neighborly behavior. That was the case last night. Many hands make for short work. 

When we awaken each day, God is already at work, and as I said last week He does not need us to help. He chooses to let us help. I suggest a simple prayer would be this. "Hey Lord, if you need me today, I am available." The combinations of what He can do with a willing heart is endless. Do you wake up and see a pile of snow or an opportunity to bless a neighbor? 

The message for today is simple. Galatians 5:14 For the whole law is fulfilled in one word. "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." 

Food for thought. 

Marty

Bracing For A Storm 2/12/2025

 Good Morning,

I just poured myself a hot cup of Door County Brownie Batter Coffee. The dogs have been fed and it is time to write. 

Psalm 74:17 It was you who set the boundaries of the earth, You made both summer and   winter.

As I sit here at my desk, the thought of the day is "snow storm". For a couple days now we have been listening to the weather forecasts advising us that a storm is headed our way. The forecast is calling for a substantial amount of snow but not as much snow as storms of the past. Last night those in charge of the schools started canceling most of the daily activities and issued a "snow day". Gas stations were busier than normal as folks filled their tanks. The extra weight helps with traction in the snow, and a full tank is best for traveling in winter just in case you slide into a ditch. So while you wait to be pulled out of your snowy jail you can stay warm. 

Again as far as the forecast goes, this storm will not compare to some I have been in during my lifetime. I would have to say this, and I could be wrong. It seems to me that many folks want a snow storm. Maybe they enjoy shoveling out the driveway. To me it is just another chore to do. Some folks will now be able to ride their snow mobiles . A day off of work for some. A day away from school for some. My crock pot is filled with some cream of rice soup. I was going to make some anyway. 

Now if the weather folks get this wrong and it snows for a whole day and over a foot of snow falls, there will be a lot of complaints and anger. 

In life you can't always receive the storm you desire. Some bad days arrive and heap more disaster on you than what you can handle. Some days the storms arrive and they don't leave for awhile. Be prepared to ride out the troubles of life (storms) and have your spiritual locker ready at all times. Be in the word of God daily. Pray without ceasing for yourself and others. And don't be so cocky as to inviting storms in. " I can find a job anytime. So I don't care if I lose mine" "We will be ok. I have plenty of money in the bank". These are just a couple of foolish statements made by folks who ended up losing everything. 

Be careful what you wish for. And don't invite the storms of life to test your preparedness. 

Have a great day. 

Marty

The Porch Light Was On 2/11/2025

 Good Morning,

My pot of Door County Brownie Batter Coffee just finished brewing and the chair is familiar so it is time to write. 

Colossians 3:14 And above all these put on love, which binds every thing together in perfect harmony. 

Last night I returned home from visiting our daughter and as I turned into our subdivision our home was lit up with the outside lights welcoming me home. My wife met me at the door with a hug and to my surprise the dogs did not. The reception from our two furry family members was a little bit cold. They did not seem too happy to see me at first. I called out their names and when I got down on the floor it was game on. They warmed right up, tails waging and face licks were handed out in abundance. 

My point for the day is this. Don't always assume that your actions, even though very honorable, aren't received in the way you thought they would go. People get their feelings hurt and you didn't expect that to happen. Life is one big learning module and it is important to keep learning as you go. It is important to learn and keep the lessons being taught in any situations life brings your way. I also learned from my return home is that timing is everything. Had I returned later into the night and the dogs were settled in for the night, I believe there would have been some barking going on. They had already somewhat adjusted to a new normal. 

All is well today.  Rene is still sleeping, and the two foot warmers are asleep on my feet. 

Have a great day!

Marty

A Mountain To Climb 2/9/2025

 Good Morning,

I will be filling my insulated bottle soon with Hazelnut Crème Coffee, packing my truck and leaving Georgia and going home. 

Psalm 121. 1. I will lift up my eyes to the hills. From whence comes my help? 2. My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth. 3. He will not allow your foot to be moved. He who keeps you will not slumber. 4. Behold He who keeps Israel shall neither slumber or sleep. 5. The Lord is your keeper. The Lord is your shade at you right hand. 6. The sun shall not strike you by day. Nor the moon by night. 7. The Lord shall preserve you from all evil. He shall preserve your soul. 8. The Lord shall preserve your going out and your coming in. From this time forth and forever more. 

This long visit with our daughter has to come to an end today. We have had a good time of mending our hearts together. The loss of her son, our grandson, is still a wound that is not completely healed and probably will never be fully healed. 

So leaving today and going home is another mountain to climb. I can't do it alone and will rely on my help coming from the Lord. I know friends and family back home are praying for us and I am truly grateful. The day will be long and I will stop and rest when needed. I know the light will be left on for me at home. I am sure my eyes will be leaking when I say see you in June or July and I will call every day. 

So the point for today is. When in need of emotional support and strength, Look Up. Help is already there.

Marty

He Tends The Flock 2/9/2025

 Good Morning,

I seem to need a hot cup of Door County Hazelnut Crème Coffee this morning. And so, shall it be. 

Isaiah 40:11 He tends his flock like a shepherd. He gathers the lambs in His arms and carries them close to His heart. He gently leads them.

I have one last day on my extended visit with our daughter. It has been a good visit and a much needed one. While here I was able to meet her neighbors and friends, and I have to say they are a very nice bunch of people. Although away from my wife, dogs, home, and my flock at church I kept busy and was able to keep some of my routine. 

One thing I noticed is that my prayer list expanded as I started to include Kristy's friends, coworkers, and neighbors. As I became aware of prayer needs I would add them to my prayer list.  Most of them if not all of them will never know they were prayed for. Because, it is not me who should get the glory at all. It is God the father who allowed me to meet new people and while away from home I could minister to them with our daughter. The outcomes of the prayers are all up to Him. 

My point for the day is this. Minister where you are and know that God can expand your horizons. Our prayers don't need a zip code. God will accept them and never will we receive a "Return To Sender Notice."  Secondly, God is at work 24 hours a day, all over the world. He really doesn't need us, but allows us to to join Him in his work. So again I say, minister where you are. 

In that, I also was ministered to. God showed me that He was with Kristy and me during our time of healing and sorrow. He knows me so well and knows that my heart beats best when it beats for others. 

We serve an awesome God. 

Marty

Send Yourself 2/8/2025

 Good Morning,

The Hazelnut Creme Coffee in my mug is just what I need to start the day off with a big dose of gusto. 

There are times when we all want to help when calamity takes place in the lives of others. We refer to the lasagna recipe that is always a nice meal for someone who's life is a little sideways. I have been the recipient of a few of those nice gifts. Just recently we were gifted a big pot of Goulash at a time when eating or cooking just was not on my mind. 

Isaiah 6:8 "I heard the voice of the Lord, saying. Whom shall I send, and who will go for us? Then said I, Here am I; send me."

Friends, it is very often that we can see the hand of God in a pan of goulash or lasagna. Kindness extended through a pot of soup, the willingness to do a load of laundry or babysit is basically sending yourself to the situation. We pray for people to be healthy, secure, and healed from a boat load of troubles. And never once did I see God make a pan of lasagna. He uses others to show love and compassion. He uses you. In some of the great disasters it is the local church that reaches out to organize, sooth souls, and assist others. It is neighbors showing the love of Christ to one another that brings people closer to each other. 

Our faith in God is number one, yet He puts the boots of others on the ground when needed.

Food for thought! 

Marty  

Who's Driving Your Bus? 2/7/2025

 Good Morning,

A hot cup Hazelnut Crème Coffee is entertaining my taste buds this morning and it is time to write.

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart. And lean not on your own understanding; 6. In all your ways acknowledge Him. And He shall direct your paths.  

Psalm 119:105 Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. 

Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you" declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" 

When it comes to making choices in our lives we, have to first make the choice as to who is driving our bus.  We are often faced with decisions that could have consequences if the wrong direction is chosen. 

We often take charge of directing the changes via using emotions and feelings. I try not to make quick decisions using emotions or feelings as  the drivers of my decisions. Feelings can trick us into doing things that we shouldn't trust. For instance in my many years of working, there were times when I just did not feel like going to work. No work, no pay is not a recipe for success. Too many absences could lead to unemployment. The decision to spend instead of saving often leads to worry and woe. 

It would be a lot easier if we weren't driving our own bus. Most of us wouldn't tackle driving a bus full of children to school because of our lack of skills or training. But we will take control of a decision without prayer and seeking God's wisdom. True wisdom concedes without any reservations to God who knows what is best for us. 

Never would we force the driver of a bus load of people to give up the wheel while the bus is moving. Yet we give God limits on His authority and time behind the wheel of our life's bus. If  the process or decision is not going as quickly as we would like, we often will take control again and return to driving the bus of our life. If the decision is not what we want to hear, we switch drivers. 

Then we often want to consult with a friend. But we tend to have friends who always agree with us and support our radical minds. A good advisor or friend will tell you what you need to hear, not always what you want to hear. God will never tell you anything to harm you. 

Your Bible should be your GPS to the trip you are on and not your memory. Frequent checks on the directions should be made. (Bible Reading) God does speak through His word.

So who is driving your bus? God or you?

Marty

On A Happy Note 2/6/2025

 Good Morning,

I started this day with prayer and a hot cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee. Let's hit this morning with gusto. 

Proverbs 27:17 NIV As iron sharpens iron so one person sharpens another. 

When I was still working in health care I had the opportunity to interface with many other departments other than my own. I worked with many other leaders and as old as I was getting to be in my work life, what I brought to the work setting was still valuable. Working closely with others in the different fields of health care also afforded me the pleasure of always learning something new. We saw goals in a unified manor and accomplished quite a bit. 

In addition to the knowledge learned, I had to deal with different personalities and intensities. This too was learning moments. When it came right down to it. Each department had work to do. In the big picture all the departments had one goal in mind. The patient experience and outcomes were number one. Egos and differences of opinion needed to be left out of that experience. With that in mind, differences were resolved before any negative patient or staff impacts  were noticed. 

My point for the day is this. If you go home after a work day and you missed the opportunity to learn something new, stretch yourself, or understand another's opinion, you might not be going home on a happy note. 

God bless,

Marty 

 

A Special Occasion 2/5/2025

 Good Morning,

I just sat down with a hot cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee and it is time to write. 

Photo Credit Charish.com 

A long time ago I was taught a lesson on "Special Occasions" I attended a conference for men in Tennessee and it had several lessons in the weekend. I was still single at the time and I guess God knew that I needed all the help I could get if I were to even have a chance with a family.

We were asked to make a list of special occasions in a relationship between a husband and wife. We all fell short of being able to complete the list. Everyone had the major occasions from Christmas, first kiss, first date, birthdays, anniversary, to first house, the list went on. 

Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say rejoice. 

What we men missed was really simple. Life is a special occasion every day. A meal made for you and shared with your wife and kids, is a special occasion. A simple compliment and a thank you turns the mundane into special.

For many years I wore a white dress shirt and a tie every day. Every weekend my wife Rene would make sure that 7 white shirts were ironed and hung in the closet. She actually kept 3 more ready just in case the 7 weren't enough. I would thank her for the clean and ironed shirts. When the time came to retire, it was about two weeks into it and I made this statement. " Hey! guess what you haven't done for two weeks?" Her reply was funny. "I know I was going to start walking more. The weather is against me." I laughed and said "No, you haven't ironed any shirts" 

Her eyes were big and she grinned and then we celebrated by packing up all but two of the shirts and donated the rest to a thrift shop. The ironing board and iron are pretty much retired as well. Then we went to the local custard stand for some frozen treats.

My point is this. Look for opportunities to celebrate. A good note from a teacher is a reason to celebrate. A hit in a Little League game is a celebration. A new car is a celebration. They don't have to be a big deal, but life is too short not to celebrate.

Food for thought. 

Marty

Verse Of The Day 2/4/2025

 Good Morning,

I am awake, but barely this fine day. I have a hot cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee next to me and it is time to write. 

I find that I do my best studying of the word of God in the evening. I am also partial to reading a verse a day in the morning. I will sometimes use that verse in this blog, but not too often. 

Today I read,

Jeremiah 31:3 The Lord appeared to us in the past saying: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness."

As I was reading and praying, this passage assured me that as God has spoken in the past and even in the darkest of times, He has loved me despite my own self pity, anger and stubbornness. He has never left my side and when this spirit is worn down.He immediately starts the rebuilding process.   

Therefore I advise starting each day with a verse or passage. Pray before you read and absorb what God has to say. If a doctor prescribes a medication that you need to take every morning for your well being, you will usually take the medication on time very day. Whey not start every day with God and His word?

Food for thought!

Marty

Just A Little Misinformation 2/3/2025

 Good Morning,

The large mug sitting next to me is filled with Door County Highlander Grog Coffee and it is doing a great job of waking me up. 

Psalm  90:12 So teach us to number our days that we may have a heart of wisdom.

I am in Georgia on an extended visit with our daughter. The visit is much needed and long overdue. I am still involved with things back home. My wife Rene keeps everything in control. I call to check in and let her know that things here are fine and to see if she needs anything back home. Saturday night she was telling me how she and the neighbors went to church. Rene drives a little car pool and the tree of them went shopping after church. One of the passengers "Mike" told her that he needed a few things for the Super Bowl yesterday. 

After our phone call concluded, something with the call did not sit right. I kept thinking that my daughter and I needed to get a couple of steaks and celebrate the super bowl game. With as much as we have going on right now  it wasn't a surprise that we were not ready for a meal and some snacks. 

Then it hit me like a ton of bricks. I Googled the Super Bowl and found that it is still a week away and will be played this coming Sunday.

I called Rene and told her the news and heard a big OOPS on the line. "Mike bought some cheese and salami for the game, and some other snacks." 

In their defense Mike lives in assisted living and at times needs help with calendar management. Except to watch the commercials Rene could care less about the game. But she likes a juicy steak as much as I do. I called Mike and stopped him from having the cheese sliced up and all will be well. 

My point for the day is this. With good intentions meant, just a little misinformation can cause a disturbance. We need to always verify information whenever possible. There wasn't really any harm done, just a little mistake. But if Mike had purchased tings that were more perishable and could not hold for a week it would have been costly. Also if he had invited his Assisted Living friends to some cheese, salami and crackers he would have been the chuckle of the day. 

Again no big deal. But just a little wrong information can set the wheels turning on some action and in an instant some damage can be done that is harmful. I have been working with Mike to keep a calendar current and manage appointments and special dates. And for some folks it is important for others to assist and make that calendar a tool that is workable. This is a good lesson for children at an early age to learn. Being on time on the right date is important. As much information as to the details of the calendar entry should be available for the children and the whole family. 

God bless.

Marty

Thanks Mam 2/2/2025

 Good Morning,

My cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee is cutting right to the bone this morning. I think it is time to write. 

James 1:17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. 

Last month my wife and I needed to travel to Georgia to attend a life celebration. Owning two dogs and one of them now a senior citizen made for a perplexing situation. Boarding the dogs was a real concern. My brother Jim who helps us out by house sitting and taking care of the dogs was also needed in Georgia. 

Recently, Jim announced his engagement to a wonderful person, "Amanda". We are all very happy for them both. Amanda saw our plight and volunteered to have her little dog stay with friends and she came to live at our house with Leo and Gibbs our two Springer Spaniels. 

I checked in now and then, not so much to see how the dogs were doing, but to make sure Amanda had all she needed. I really wasn't worried at all. If you knew Amanda you knew your house and your dogs were in good hands. 

My point of the day is this. In a crisis God often works in ways that you don't expect and good comes out of the blue. Thank you Amanda for allowing God to let you bless us. 

Love Marty and Rene. 

Memories Aren't Always That Great 2/1/2025

 Good Morning,

A hot cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee greeted me this morning. And I am ready to face the day. 

I wrote about a book that was given to me by my nephew. "Uncle, I want to Hear Your Story." It is an uncle's guided Journal to share his story. I have some extra time on my hands these days and I have been working diligently to finish this for him.

The book is divided into seasons of a man's life. It asks you to answer questions about yourself and at times about others in your life. It is thought provoking and often causes some anxiety in the memory locker. The admission and explanation on life's failures has been hurtful and at time painful. Even the great memories are sometimes clouded in tears. He will be reading this and he has sensitive heart. He will be thinking," I should not have asked Uncle Marty to do this." Quite the contrary. It is a journal that shows me how much I was and am loved. It has shown me my life and how God's hand has been there leading me. It also shows when God's hand was rejected and I went on my own power. It is usually the pages within the book that have dark shadows, are the times when God wasn't number one in my life. 

Colossians 2:20 I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I that live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God who loved me and gave himself for me. 

Some of the mishaps in my life have been placed on the back shelf of my mind and not forgotten, just not dwelled on that much. God is wonderful that way. He let's us move on after He forgives us. The consequences stay but the memory fades away. I believe that God does not make us dwell in the past. He is gracious to take the memory and use it now and then to remind us where were were in life and not to go there again.

Our God is an awesome God.

Marty

Sometimes Things Need To Break 1/31/2025

 Good Morning,

I am sitting content with a hot cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee and it is time to write. 

Isaiah 48:18 Remember not the former things nor consider the things of old. 

A couple days ago I posted the same photo as I have posted today. That picture was taken on a cold December day on the last weekend of duck season. Everything was quiet and serene that day. What you can't really see from the photo tells a different story. That is me, out of the boat setting a line of duck decoys. The water looks like glass and it really was. I was wading in a lake that had frozen over and I was working in a spot with a thin coating of ice. I had to break the ice as I set the decoys. I recall that my nephew and I did fairly well that day and took home a few ducks. 

My point for the day is this. We can all get so content with our situations that we miss out on changes that could improve our life or the life of others. I had to break the picture perfect ice to improve our hunting. Without water to land in the ducks would not be coming our way. The effort we were making was null and void unless we made some changes. 

We often freeze our emotions and actions and just keep going with the same useless efforts in life. In order to direct a change and break the ice of contentment laden with mediocracy and failures, we must make changes. In order to quit drinking  and being drunk, you have to stay away from alcohol. Why go to a bar for a burger when there are other places that just serve food? You must break the chains of doing the same thing over and over again hoping for different results. And sometimes the thing that needs to be broken is your own will.

Food for thought. 

Marty  

Such Friendly People I've Met! 1/30/2025

 Good Morning,

I set the coffee pot to brew an hour before I woke up this morning. It worked perfectly and I did not have to wait for my cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee. So far my plan for the day is at100% on target.

Proverbs 18:24 A man who has friends must himself be friendly.

I have been in Georgia for a week now on an extended visit with our daughter. During my stay here I have been out and about in her neighborhood walking her dog Sadie. Everyone in the neighborhood knows Sadie and Kristy. Little kids run out to pet Sadie and neighbors are always chatting with Kristy. 

As I walk with Sadie I always get addressed with a good morning or good afternoon. It is common for folks to say "Have  a nice day. Say Hi to Kristy." 

It says a lot about the make up of the neighborhood and just how friendly people can be if they try. 

I am doing my best not to be my usual unapproachable guy. I will say this, the friendliness is contagious.

Food for thought. If you are going to catch something why not catch a case of the friendlies. 

Marty

Take Time To Make Your Mark 1/29/2025

 Good Morning,

I just poured a hot cup of Door County Caramel Apple Coffee and I am sure I will have another one when the first is finished. 

Colossians 3:16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another, in all wisdom, sing psalms and hymns with thankfulness in your hearts to God.

We very often work at a job and when we retire we hope to be remembered as a good friend, hard worker, and loyal. It's the same with church membership, clubs we join, neighborhoods, and families. I see some of the kids Rene and I worked  with as youth leaders in our church and now and then we still see them quoting us or doing what we taught them to do. It is a nice feeling. 

My point of the day is this. It's good to make your mark on life. But for today think about this. What kind of mark will you make on one day, that day being today? Did you wake up with a mouth full of quick sarcastic statements, or a mouth full of supportive and loving words meant to help others. Did you wake up with a bag full of selfishness on your shoulders, or a bag ready to help or build others up? 

Each day has 24 hours in it. You build your lifetime legacy one day at a time. don't skip the legacy building bricks for one day. Make a positive mark on today for others and yourself. 

God bless,

Marty

Watching The Weather Back At Home. Why? 1/28/2025

 Good Morning. 

I just poured myself a large and very hot cup of Door County Hazelnut Crème Coffee and it is time to write. 

Philippians 4:6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 

Proverbs 19:21 Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.

1Peter 5:7 Casting all your cares on Him, for He cares for you. 

As I sit in our daughter's kitchen with my coffee on my left side and my telephone on my write side, I am pondering some of my habits. When my alarm sounded off to make me start another day, the first thing I did was to check and see if I had any messages that needed attention. There was one and it was a prayer request from our church asking for prayer for a friend of ours. That request was made complete right away. 

The second thing I looked at was the temperature and weather forecast for the day back at home. I am on an extended visit in Georgia with our daughter. Now as I think about that, the weather will be the weather here and at home. Now knowing the weather in Georgia, might help me pick my attire for the day and that would impact my comfort. I could brace for severe storms if needed. Back in Wisconsin my knowledge of the weather forecast does no one any good what so ever. Even if the forecast back at home called for a foot of snow, there is not one thing I can do about it. My wife Rene doesn't have any need to go out in a storm. The house has plenty of food in it and with the help of some neighbors she will be plowed out and all would be well. It would be a foolish attempt to call her and ask if she is going anywhere. She has driven in snow before and as I said before she has a brain full of common sense so she probably wouldn't venture out anyway.

My point for the day is this. We often actually look for stress and we pile it on out of habit. I graded myself this morning on how many dumb habits I have that can add to the stress of the day. I gave myself the grade of "Some kind of special stupid." 

I have become my mother who used to call me to tell me that it was cold where we lived and it might snow. We add too much stress in small doses to an already cluttered day. 

Control what you can control. Accept what you can't control. Change things only if they need changing and it is within your control span. Pray in all things and let God run the show. It is awful tiring when we try to control the world. That's His job.

Food for thought.

Marty

Flowers In The Kitchen 1/27/2025

 Good Morning,

A large pot of Door County Caramel Apple Coffee just finished brewing. I poured myself a cup and now it is time to write. 

I am writing from our daughter's home for awhile as I embark on an extended visit. I am sitting in her kitchen and adopted and island type work surface as my desk to write in the mornings. As I sit here writing and I look across to a counter top I see the remnants of flowers sent to her home in sympathy and support on the loss of her son. 

I have posted a a photo of some of the plants and flowers. What you don't see are the faces of those who entered her home last Saturday to shower her with love and support. You don't see those who walked, drove, or arrived in a plane to be be kind. 

Romans 12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. 

Although very beautiful all on their own, the flowers and plants for me, represent all those who are praying for her, calling her and visiting. 

My point of the day is this. Life can dump a load of hurt on folks. If you have the opportunity to extend yourself to someone and make a difference, be the flower in their day. That kindness has a way of turning around and coming back to you. 

Food for thought!

Marty

Approachable And Loving 1/26/2025

 Good Morning, 

I just poured a hot cup of Door County Highlander Grog Coffee and it is time to write. 

Luke 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.

For the last few days I have been staying in our daughters home and I have watched her one year old puppy navigate the loss of her buddy (our grandson) which included a lot of people visiting in her home. I am not sure who benefited the most from the extra people who scratched her ears, petted her, or walked her around the neighborhood. I am sure Sadie the bull dog loved the attention, but I think a lot of people just needed a dog to sit next to and absorb the emotions they were going through. In all of this Sadie remained approachable, loving and kind. 

My point for the day is this. We can learn from this furry lady. Despite our having a bad day, we should strive to remain approachable and loving. And if in doing so, we just might lesson the load of frustration, pain and hurt for someone else. 

God bless, 

Marty

 

Until We Meet Again 1/25/2024

 Good Morning,

I am waiting for a pot of Door County Hazelnut Cream Coffee to finish brewing. It is time to write.

For the last couple of weeks I have been mourning the loss of our grandson. I am fully aware of his faith in Jesus Christ and I know that he resides in heaven. Some day we will meet again up yonder and I look forward to that day. Our daughter is grieving and it is hard to watch her suffer. Dad just can't fix the situation this time. 

1 Corinthians 2:9 But as it is written, "What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love Him."

I can say this. Laying him to rest is one of the hardest things I will ever have to do. Yet if I could, I would not trade places with him. I would be be guilty of robbing our grandson of his time in heaven and it would be a heavenly crime to do so. He is with God now and there isn't any pain, sorrow, sickness or worries there. So I have to remove my selfish thoughts and heal, knowing that he will be missed so badly, yet he is where I will see him again and never miss a day for eternity.

Food for thought.

Marty

 

Wake Up Sadie Time To Wrestle1-24-2025

 Good Morning,

I just started to brew a pot of Door County Mocha Mint Coffee and it is time to write.

Yesterday we my wife and I arrived in Georgia to be with our daughter for a few days. She has a one year old English bull dog named Sadie. This ball of energy wanted to play all day and play we did, right up until 10pm. 

I am actually a little sore this morning from the wrestling we did. The black 60 pound bowling ball was able to wear me out. But notice this. I am awake and guess who is still asleep? She will be up from her slumber soon.

I am taking this quiet time to pray and think. 

Psalm 143:8 "Let me hear if your unfailing love each morning, for I am trusting you. Show me where to walk, for I give myself to you."

It is peaceful now and I will take full advantage of the peace and enjoy this time with God. Then it is time for some chores to be done and then some freestyle wrestling with my furry friend.

My point is this. Wake up early and let God start your day! Set your sight on above.

Food for thought! 

Marty

When The Spouse Tells You To Let Her Drive 1/23/2025

 Good Morning,

A hot cup of Door County Country Morning Blend Coffee is next to me and it is time to write. 

Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. 

Yesterday my wife Rene and I started on a long journey to be with our daughter for a few days. We are blessed to have family house sitting and taking care of our two dogs. 

I haven't been sleeping well lately at all. There are a lot of things on my mind. 

A few hours into our drive my eyes were becoming heavy and I was struggling to stay awake. Before I could say anything, Rene asked if we could stop for a few minutes and stretch our legs. I agreed with her idea. When I came out of a convenience store I found her in the drivers seat of the truck. "I am going to drive for a little bit" was her welcome  statement to her common sense decision. My pride did not get in the way and I was able to get about a 1.5 hour nap. 

There wasn't a fuss at all. My wife took over the situation when I wasn't thinking clearly. Her decision was made for our betterment and I will give always give in when it makes good sense.

We should never let ego or pride take over any family situation when it is what is best for the family. 

Food for thought. No matter the gender, honor each other and accept common sense ideas at all times.

Marty 

God Knew What The Lesson Should Be. 1/22/2025

 Good Morning,

The coffee today that just filled my cup is Door County Country Morning Blend and it is time to write. 

We were asked by my friend and neighbor to hold a Bible study at the assisted living home where he lives. We started doing this about three or four months ago. It is a very small group. They all assemble at the dining room table. We pray and then we have a very short Bible study. It is easy for me to do, because I have a library full of short messages and Bible studies. Our new friends have never heard any of them, so it is easy to pick one, print it out and go!

On Monday we were scheduled to hold the study. Monday morning I prayed about it and went into my files which are filed alphabetically and one of the first ones I saw was a simple one on anger management. I thought to myself. "Who doesn't need to take a look at some anger management Biblically now and then.?"

I handed out the study sheets and the lady next to me was looking kind of down. She told me that she had just gotten angry with one of the staff members and she said things to the staff member in a way that was not nice or appropriate. I knew right then and there that God had chosen the subject for the evening. 

This small group went away with two lessons that night.

Psalm 37:8 Cease from anger and forsake wrath, it only causes harm. was the first lesson.

The second lesson was to memorize a Bible verse that would help when you feel you are at your anger tipping point. Calling on the power in the word of God to overcome the temptation to blow up. 

Psalm 119:11 I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against You. The study had several verses for her to choose from. 

I believe we can all learn from this short but powerful lesson. Let's all lean on the Word to help us control our anger.  

Amen.

Marty 

Give Credit Where Credit Is Due 1/20/2025

 Good Morning, 

The day began with prayer and a hot cup of Door County Pumpkin Spice Coffee.

Proverbs 3:27 Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it. 

Over the weekend my buddies and I entered a contest to see who could shoot a pheasant with the longest tail feathers. It was a team event. Our team had five guys on it and we were on a game farm hunting birds that were released in a field.  Our dogs flushed a lot of birds and we were able to shoot all of the ones that were flushed. One of my buddies flushed one just by walking next to it. So he gets credit for one flush. Our two dogs Waylon and Leo retrieved all of the downed birds. They did most of the work. Us hunters shot pretty well and we can take credit as a team. 

Later on back at the club house one of the guys took advantage of the offer to have his birds cleaned by a young boy who just started working for the club. (Game Farm). Once I was home the text messages started and pictures were posted. A comment from the fella who had his birds cleaned by this 11 or twelve year old boy, shared on what a good job the youngster did on the birds. 

I took that comment and sent it to the owner of the club. I am positive that he shared the comment with the young man.

It is always important to share a compliment with the person a worker reports to. We are all ready to complain when things are just not perfect. But we are slow to take that extra step and appreciate a job well done. I saw the work ethic of a young boy on a frigid day. If he continues in life the way I witnessed him work, whatever his profession ends up to be, he will be an asset to his team. 

So when a job is done well, say thank you and extend a compliment. If appropriate leave a tip ( we did) to show your appreciation. 

Food for thought!

Marty 

A Soufflé Can Fall, And A Cake Can Burn 1/20/2025

 Good Morning. 

My mug is full of Door County Pumpkin Spice Coffee. The house is warm and it is time to write. 

It is true that a souffle' and a cake look tastier when they have risen to the right height for each treat. But even the best of chef's or the best bakers experience the fall of their dietary masterpieces now and then. 

Matthew 18:21-22 Then Peter came to Him and said. "Lord how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?" 22. Jesus said to him. " I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven. 

I am here to say that  one failure or even a few now and then does not stop a dedicated expert from continuing in their field. They learn from their mistakes and use the mistakes to hone their skills. 

If we were to adopt the no quit, don't give up, keep going, attitude that a successful baker or chef needs to have when handling their delicate creations, to our own relationships, we might be able to make that marriage work. We might be able to be more neighborly. We might look forward more to each work day when we don't quit on our coworker relationships. 

Yes the things happen to make a relationship fall or flop. But we need to keep trying and perfecting the recipe for love, respect, patience, and kindness. A tire is only really flat on one side. It isn't any good until someone fixes the flat or brings the compressor to "pump it up".

Food for thought. 

Marty

Frigid Temperatures 1/19/2025

 Good Morning,

The beverage of the morning is Door County Jamaican Blue Mountain Blend Coffee and it is time to write. 

The local weather forecast is for below zero temperatures for the next couple of days and it will be a tough one to bear.

Hebrews 13:16 Do not neglect to do good and share what you have, for such sacrifices are please to God. 

My wife and I are blessed to have warm clothing, a warm house, and plenty of firewood for days like this. Cold weather is a challenge for almost everyone and we tend to manage quite well. But it is at times like these that we are to face this cold with spiritual eyes and watch for those who might need some gloves, a hat or a cap. You might have some extra soup you can share or you might be able to spare a blanket or two  for someone in need. A child might need a hand to get dressed in the extra garb needed to beat the cold. Before you step outside ask God to keep you alert for those you might be able to help. 

God will show you your calling in these frigid days. Food for thought.

Marty

Bread And Soup Night 1/18/2025

 Good Morning,

I am up early and I just poured myself a large cup of Door County Jamaican Blue Mountain Blend Coffee and it is time to write. 

Acts 2:42 And they devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. 

Tonight after our Saturday evening church service the flock will gather to dine together and fellowship. I always look forward to these events. I believe that some of the best food I have ever eaten is at the church pot luck dinners. Tonight the food is designed to be a cold weather beater People sign up and some are bringing the soup and some are bringing the bread. We will have a great variety of each as well as some desserts. It's nothing fancy, just a simple meal of different soups, breads and sweets. 

I was gifted some ground bison, and my bison will be made into chili. My point is this. It is important to attend church, worship together, serve in the church with your talents, read your Bible and also take part in the fellowship. This fellowship is an easy one to do and serves two purposes. It's nice to invite folks to church and then have a time afterwards to  get to know people better or renew friendships. We will all leave with a full belly and a happy heart. 

Think about it. Soup and bread. How easy is that to do, at church or your own home? You are as lonely as you choose to be. 

Marty

I Believe 1/17/2025

 Good Morning,

I am sitting at my desk and my favorite mug is filled with Door County White Christmas Coffee and it is time to write. 

Matthew 6:33 But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you. 

I have been logging some thoughts into a book that was given to me by one of my nephews. It is meant to be given back to him and when I leave this world he can read it and know more about me, and my thoughts, and the particulars of my life. 

If I were to share anything from that book of thoughts it would be this. In 1981 during a stressful time I found my faith in Jesus Christ. I made a promise to God that night to serve Him as long as I am physically able. I adopted the motto. My God is first. My family is second, and I am third. I experienced the saving grace of Jesus and forgiveness that night. My life has changed and evolved every day since then. I wish to be remembered that way and that I was a man of prayer. Not just a guy who hunted wild game and missed a lot of shots. I hope he gets that message by reading the book he lovingly gifted me with. 

I hope that in my writing he can understand my calling to serve the Lord and that I always did my best to keep my word to God. I am sure that it is frustrating for my family  to have to alter plans for get togethers because I have a service to perform at church. Here is my thought on that. If God is first in my life, my family will always be a very solid number two. They will never have to be number three or four. I believe in church service and attendance and I  will never change the order. 

There are a lot of questions in this book that I will do my best to answer, like what was the weather like on the day you were born? I had to look that up in Google, but I hope that amongst all the trivia my message of my walk with God is the one that stands out to him. 

Hey have a great day, and walk with God. He wants to hear from you.

Marty

Being Humble Enough To Learn. 1/16/2025

 Good Morning, 

I just filled a large mug with very hot Door County Black and Tan Coffee and it is time to write. 

Proverbs 11:2 When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.

There are many times when most people will have to be humble enough to admit they were wrong about something. So in humility you can also say that you are wiser today than you were yesterday. 

When we humble ourselves enough to admit when we are wrong, we open the door to wisdom, by learning from our mistakes or by being corrected. True humility does not really concern itself with who was right, but more as to what is right and true. 

So when you are at an impasse of disagreement as to who is right, look to what is really right and surrender your pride to setting your course to achieve and support true right.

Food for thought,

Marty 

The Less You Say, The More Your Words Will Matter 11/15/2024

 Good Morning, 

Door County Irish Cream Coffee has decorated the inside of my mug today and it is time to write.

Job 2:13 And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great. 

We all have a tendency ( usually men) to intend to listen to someone during their personal crisis or issue but we ruin the moment by deriving a solution to their problem before they even finish speaking. We want to solve before we know all there is to know and very often we frustrate the one who is confiding in us. 

When we are listening to someone in need of advice or just to be a sounding board, our job is to listen. We should listen so well that if we had to repeat what the troubled soul said to us we should be able to do it word for word. The less we say and listen more, our words might have a better impact. A true friend listens and waits on sharing an opinion or just continues to listen without jumping in with a half baked solution. 

Food for thought???

Marty

Reach For Greatness 1/14/2024

 Good Morning, 

I will be with friends today hunting, and my Door County Irish Crème Coffee will be considered to be my friend. It is a cold one today. 

Matthew 25:40 And the King will answer and say to them. Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me. 

 

In life, people will perform many acts of "greatness" on any given day, including you. You just took a look in the mirror and said "I don't see myself doing anything great in this world today or any day in the future." You are wrong. 

I am here to argue with you. If you prayed for someone today. If you reached out in friendship to a stranger. If you fed a hungry person. If you consoled someone who is hurting, you preformed an act of greatness. You did something to alter someone's life in a good way. No one said what you said. No one else did what you did for that one moment in time.

My thought for the day is this. "You don't have to be great to start. But you have to start to be great. 

Reach out for greatness today. Impact a life or two today. Don't keep a tally, just make an encounter with you a great day for those who need it.

Marty